What causes children to be irritable?

Not all babies are well-behaved. When babies reach the age of 3-4, they will enter a rebellious period. Their tempers will become very bad, and they will hit people and throw things at any time. It is normal for children to have emotional changes within a few years after birth. Most of the time, it is caused by the parents' failure to make reasonable adjustments. Parents need to patiently guide their children, and they will recover with reasonable guidance.

It’s normal to get angry

As children grow up, especially after the age of two or three, their tempers seem to get worse and worse: if you don’t buy the toy they want, they get angry; if they want to go out to play and you don’t let them, they get angry... Faced with children like "little Tyrannosaurus", many parents rack their brains to figure out what is going on.

In fact, children have emotional responses from the moment they are born. If their needs are not met, throwing a tantrum is a way for them to express their emotions. Soon after a child is born, if he is hungry or sick, he will cry with a red face. This initial emotional reaction is mostly related to physiological needs. But as we age, emotions develop further. Especially after entering the first rebellious period at the age of two or three, children's self-awareness begins to sprout and strengthen, and dissatisfaction often occurs. However, due to their limited language expression and self-control abilities, once their wishes are not fulfilled, it is difficult for them to communicate with adults through words and express their dissatisfaction, and they can often only "lose their temper". When they are seven or eight years old, children enter another stage and begin to emphasize independence and announce to the world in a high-profile manner - I have grown up.

However, in the eyes of parents, children are still "little Doudou" who need careful care in all aspects, so conflicts are inevitable.

Any mentally healthy person has positive and negative emotions, and children are no exception. Occasionally losing temper is an extremely natural way of expressing emotions, and parents should allow their children to lose temper.

Parents should guide their children to express their inner emotions and give them some necessary explanations to help them understand the following principles:

First, every experience in life teaches us something that makes us more effective in creating a successful and happy future. People who don’t understand this truth always complain that life is not going as planned. Those who understand this principle will continue to improve, enjoy life, be cheerful and full of confidence. This principle should be taught to children when they are very young.

Second, all the beautiful things in the world will have to part one day, so when you are with it, you should treat it well, enjoy the benefits it brings you, and cherish the pleasure of being with it. After it leaves, keep the beautiful memories well and let it accompany you every day in your heart.