What to do if your child always loses temper?

At present, most Chinese families have only one child, which makes it very difficult to educate the child. Sometimes there is only one grandson for four elderly people. For the two families, the child's status becomes more important, and it is more likely that the child will be spoiled. On the other hand, this kind of spoiling has a great impact on the child. He will always lose his temper and cry if he is not satisfied, which is very bad for the child's future growth.

Sometimes children will cry on purpose to test you. At this time, you just need to stand firm. When they see that you cannot control them, they will calm down and stop crying.

If your child is throwing a tantrum because he can't get something, never give him the thing just to calm him down. If he can get what he wants by losing his temper, he will lose his temper more often in the future.

If your child cries loudly and you can't stand his screams, you can go somewhere else to do noisy activities, such as vacuuming the floor or nailing things. Ignore what your child says or does when he is crying. Make him understand that yelling is useless and that you will only listen carefully if you speak nicely.

Music has a calming effect. Playing some music can attract the child's attention and stop the crying.

You can suddenly propose a new task and ask your child to do it with you, and he will forget about his temper.

Whisper something funny in your child's ear or start telling a story, and your child will likely stop crying in order to listen to the story.

If you sense your child becoming increasingly stressed, have him or her play an engaging game, read a book, or simply take him or her outside.

When children always lose their temper, parents should examine themselves and think about whether this is the result you want. As a parent, what you need is what kind of situation your children will be in in the future society? This is very important. Excessive pampering will often ruin a child's growth. Think about this and, as a parent, do you need to change your method of education?