What to do if your child has no patience

The pace of social life and work is now relatively fast, and the speed at which many things develop makes us feel dazzled, so it is even more attractive to many children. Under such circumstances, children do not have much patience for many things. Sometimes they give up when they encounter a little difficulty and cannot concentrate when doing things. Children's impatience makes parents feel very troubled.

1. Teach by example

Parents must first learn to be patient before they can teach their children to be patient. If parents have an impatient temper, their children may have emotional problems such as timidity or domineering when they grow up.

2. Don’t take over and replace

Parents often like to do everything for children who lack patience. As a result, if the children don’t like something, the parents will do it for them, causing the children to lose their desire for knowledge and even their patience.

3. Keep exercising

Only with a healthy body can you have a healthy mind. Exercise has unparalleled benefits. Let your children set feasible goals and do a certain amount of exercise every day, and they will gradually develop the ability to adjust themselves.

4. Give your child limited toys and books

Don't give your child too many toys or books at once. If you give children too many, they will be overwhelmed and will only be satisfied with the novelty they bring, but will not have the patience to explore every toy and every book.

5. Participate in group games

Compared with playing alone, playing more group games can help children develop the habit of abiding by the rules. During the waiting process of the game, it can improve children's patience and cultivate children's teamwork ability.

6. Let your child express his or her goals

Let your children set goals within their capabilities and help them achieve them. It is best for children to repeatedly state their goals. In this way, they can remind themselves that they must stick to their promises and thus develop a strong will.

7. Let your child concentrate on one thing

Try to prevent children from doing two things at the same time, such as eating while watching TV or doing homework while watching TV. These behaviors should be avoided as much as possible.

8. Let your child read and study alone

Many parents like to accompany their children while they study, thinking that this will help them answer their questions and doubts, and on the other hand allow them to monitor whether their children are paying attention. But this will make children more likely to develop a dependent mentality and make it more difficult for them to concentrate.

9. Don’t interrupt your child

If your child is concentrating on doing something, don't interrupt him or her. If children are interrupted frequently, they will worry about being interrupted when they are doing things in the future and will not be able to concentrate.

10. Don’t emphasize repeatedly when talking to your child.

Don't repeat yourself when talking to your children. Many mothers are always worried that their children may not hear you, so they repeat the same thing over and over again. If you keep repeating the same sentence, your child will no longer listen carefully to what others say.