Is it normal for children to have a rebellious period?

Many mothers may have experienced such a phenomenon, that is, children become very rebellious after reaching a certain age, especially some children when they are eight or nine years old. They are very difficult to discipline. They like to be naughty, not attend classes seriously at school, lose their temper at home, and throw things around. These are some problems in the rebellious period of children. In fact, the rebellious period of children is a normal phenomenon. Parents can only guide them, and the children will pass through this stage smoothly.

If you look at various articles discussing the rebellious period, you will find that the vast majority believe that rebellious psychology is bad and must be eliminated as soon as possible. In fact, rebellious psychology is a normal manifestation of children's development. When a child's physical and psychological development reaches this level, he or she must have a little rebellious psychology to be considered as growing up. During this period, many of the child's abilities develop in leaps and bounds, and he or she has clearly reached a new level. As children grow up, they look at the world from a different perspective, their views change accordingly, and their mental activities become more frequent. However, most of the original activities of young children were arranged by adults, and they had little freedom. It is normal for them to develop some rebellious psychology now.

Special note: Children enter the first rebellious period at around 3 years old. Children in this period have basically developed language intelligence and motor intelligence, and begin to have permanent memory ability. Their fine motor skills enter a critical period for the development of their ability to conceive and construct, and their gross muscle motor skills enter a critical period for the development of their ability to control the balance of objects. If a child does not develop a rebellious mentality when entering the stage of becoming a little adult from an ignorant kid, parents should consider what is wrong with the child.

Parents should pay attention when children are in the rebellious period. Children are very naughty at this time, but adults should not criticize or scold children for making small mistakes. Instead, they should conduct more reasonable and well-founded persuasion and education, and use reason to guide children back on the right track. In this way, children can safely pass through the rebellious period without causing any psychological trauma to them.