Teach children or destroy children. Do you really understand the world of boys?

Nowadays, more and more young couples think that having a daughter is better than a son. Giving birth to a son is like building a China Construction Bank, which will be given to others after it is built; while giving birth to a daughter is like building a China Merchants Bank, which will also bring a servant to the family after it is built. There are also many couples who think that boys are more naughty, and if they have their first child, they will inevitably be overwhelmed as first-time parents. But things like having a boy or a girl are not something people can control. If you give birth to a boy, hot moms, will you educate him?

Principle 1: Let boys know from an early age that they are great men

When a boy is four or five years old, he already has gender awareness and knows that he is a little man. At this time, parents should consciously cultivate their masculine style, let boys do their own things in life, and cultivate their sense of independence.

It is worth noting that fathers play a huge role in helping boys develop a sense of masculinity from an early age. Countless facts have proved that excessive protection and worry from the mother will reduce the masculinity of the boy; while the stricter rules and looser constraints from the father will give the boy unparalleled strength and courage, thereby prompting the boy to grow into an excellent man faster.

Principle 2: Don't be too hard on boys, be friends with them

What do boys fear the most? Obviously, they fear no one understanding, no one supporting them, and no freedom!

What are boys least afraid of? Parents with boys at home all know that what boys are least afraid of is coercion by force. "The more they are beaten, the more stubborn they become" is their strong point.

Therefore, all parents of boys must remember this parenting motto: If you don't become friends with your boy now, then after puberty, he will regard you as an "enemy"!

Respect your boy and give up the parenting concept of "no beating, no success"; always let the boy feel your lukewarm love, and restrain him subtly but not forcefully.

Principle 3: Don’t give your boy everything he wants

It is said that boys should be raised in poverty. The "poor" we are talking about includes two concepts, one is that parents should not spoil them too much, and the other is that they do not have enough money.

Some parents will grant their boys whatever they want, so what will this practice of making their boys too "rich" bring to the boys?

Parents’ excessive pampering makes them selfish and irresponsible; too much money makes them think that studying is just for making money, and they don’t need to study because they are so rich; parents’ doing everything for them makes them lose the ability to work, cope with difficulties, and resist setbacks.

Because of this, wise parents will never let their boys be too "rich". They will hide half of their "love" and they will look for and create opportunities for boys to experience poverty!

Principle 4: Boys’ successful personalities need to be cultivated from an early age

In life, parents of boys often feel helpless because they expect their children to be independent, but often their children cannot do so. Whenever encountering such a situation, the boy’s parents always comfort themselves like this: "When he grows up, he will naturally understand..." But the facts are often completely opposite to the parents' expectations.

If you expect a boy who always gives up easily to suddenly become strong when he turns 18, is that realistic?

If you expect a timid little boy to suddenly become an excellent diplomat after he turns 20, is it possible?

No boy can live only in his parents' dreams. Therefore, educating boys requires parents to guide them in a down-to-earth manner to accumulate the abilities and qualities for success when they are very young.

In fact, the educational principles required for boys and girls are not the same. As parents, we only hope to see our little man grow up mentally into a real man as soon as possible. Then in the days to come, everyone can be proud of their son and proud of their amazing boy!