Change your perspective and your children will listen to you.

Communication between parents and children often requires art and wisdom. Parents don't have to compete with their children in wits and courage, but at least they should know how to communicate with their children from multiple angles. Even though children are young, if you are too direct, they will find it difficult to accept the kindness of their parents. If you are too tactful, children will not understand the real intentions of their parents. In the communication and interaction with children, what should parents do?

1. When children are disobedient

When a child is disobedient, if the parents directly and angrily scold the child, the child may shed tears, but may not remember to not make the same mistake again next time. But if parents can change their perspective, pull the child in front of them, and tell him about other children who suffered accidental injuries, broken hands and feet, and other safety accidents due to disobedience, and had to lie in hospital beds, the child will definitely open his eyes wide in surprise, listen to what the parents say with great interest, and naturally will not touch it next time. This is the art of changing perspective to make children obedient.

2. Use the power of fairy tales

Children like to listen to stories, and there are many classic growth experiences in these stories. Especially in modern times, there are many picture book stories that address various problems encountered by children in their growth, and children can read the stories while looking at the pictures. For example, if the child does not have a good relationship with other children, the mother can tell the child the story of Xiyangyang and his friends, how a group of lambs became friends, how they helped each other when friends were in need, and how friends should love and help each other. With the mother's skillful guidance, the child knows how to get along well with other children.

3. Quote the protagonist in the story

Children like Snow White because she is beautiful and kind; children like Peppa Pig because he is the embodiment of justice. All the heroes that children like have many advantages. If parents can use these characters to guide and educate their children, then the children will definitely learn many good habits. For example, a mother can say to her baby: "Our Peppa Pig is so brave. He can always find his own solutions when encountering problems." The child may have just been complaining about his mother asking him to help with housework, but when he hears his mother say this, he immediately goes to do housework happily.

4. Use interesting activities to make your baby obedient

Many times the reason why children are disobedient is because their parents use the wrong approach. In fact, as long as parents slightly change the way they speak, the children will be happy to obey. For example, the mother wants to take the baby out of the house, but the child is unwilling to walk and refuses to listen to the mother and go out. At this time, if the mother says to the baby, "Today people are having a walking competition to see who arrives first," the child will immediately rush out of the house and get ahead of the mother when he hears that it is a competition. Of course, you must ensure the safety of the child first when doing this!