1. You can communicate with anyone Without good communication skills, it is impossible to integrate into the real society and you will lose many opportunities for personal development. Even in the implementation of family education, communication between children and parents is particularly important. 2. Train your children to listen patiently Listening is really important! Many people nowadays lack patience and cannot tolerate listening to other people's explanations. They always hope that what they say is the most accurate and reasonable. In fact, in many cases, their own considerations will be very one-sided. 3. Able to solve life problems by oneself Many of the children from mainland China who go to study in the United States are only children. They have no life skills and cannot cook, wash clothes, change tires, change light bulbs, or paint furniture. This is not a reflection of your nobility. You do not know how to take care of yourself and cannot do things by yourself, which shows that your ideas are very outdated. The ability to face and solve problems independently is a survival skill that everyone in modern society must possess. It is also a basic ability that individuals must have when facing life and career. 4. Read very diligently Children who do not have the habit of diligent reading will definitely not have lasting development in the future! Diligent means to have the habit of reading, to learn to read in spare time, to persist in reading when encountering various difficulties, and fast means to read faster. speed, the ability to acquire new reading information, and the ability to communicate reading experiences with peers in a timely manner. Reading, first of all, means reading difficult texts, but it also includes reading online information and paying attention to various real information around us. 5. Ability to write It is difficult to seek ideal career development opportunities in modern society without good writing skills. Writing skills are also a good way of expression and promotion. 6. Know how to respect each other and know how to criticize yourself When I was very young, my grandmother told me: "Those who respect others will be respected by others." The meaning is very clear. Only by respecting others can you be respected by others. 7. Make friendly contact with the outside world Being good at accepting the outside world, good at accepting new things, good at discovering and learning new things and constantly accepting them is a very important ability in modern society and an important manifestation of social progress. 8. Cultivate a rigorous temperament in children A rigorous character is the most basic quality for a child to interact with others, be respected and appreciated in the future. The reality now is that there may be fewer and fewer people who value rigor, care about rigor, and insist on rigor, but those who can always be rigorous are the pride of the times. 9. Have an environmental awareness and leave a good earth to the next generation In fact, nowadays many rich, powerful and influential people often disregard and ignore the concept of "environmental protection" when satisfying their personal comfort. For example, how much wood do you use to decorate a house? Will the future of humanity bring disaster? When configuring a home theater or music center, have you considered whether the decibel level during playback will disturb your neighbors and cause noise pollution? When eating all kinds of food, especially tasting game, have you ever thought about which food raw materials should be controlled and protected? |
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