The pros and cons of early love among middle school students

Children in today's society are growing faster and faster. Due to the influence of various external factors, children are very open to the issue of premature love. Many friends have started dating since middle school. In fact, there is nothing wrong with premature love. We need to recognize its pros and cons. If parents know that their children are in premature love, they should not intervene excessively and should give them full freedom. So, what are the advantages and disadvantages of early love among middle school students?

Most teenagers who fall in love early follow a trajectory where their feelings rise sharply while their academic performance drops sharply. Premature love has ruined the academic performance of many excellent students and destroyed the future of many children. Among the teenagers who fall in love prematurely, there are many who have excellent academic performance and are outstanding. However, because of premature love, they are overly curious, excited, obsessed, and overly indulged in the fantasy of love, and can no longer devote themselves to study wholeheartedly. In fact, learning is like rowing against the current. If you don't move forward, you will fall behind. If a student studies several subjects at the same time every day, there is no guarantee that he will get excellent results even if he studies very hard. If you are in love, you are infatuated with each other, how can you learn your lessons? Most of the courses that middle school students learn are basic courses, which are knowledge that paves the way for entering the society in the future. If you don't lay a good foundation at this stage, how can you find a job in the future, how can you develop your talents, how can you gain a foothold in the society and contribute to the country?

Disadvantage 2 of early love: early love is more likely to cause harm

Teenagers’ attitudes are still unstable, conflicts are easily generated in relationships, they are psychologically immature, fragile and have low tolerance, and they are easily hurt by the ups and downs of relationships. Some teenagers begin to doubt their lives and whether there is true love because of the frustration of early love, which casts a shadow on their emotional life and affects their marriage life in adulthood.

Teenagers' sexual awareness begins to emerge, and they have strong desires for the opposite sex. They are easily excited, have difficulty controlling their emotions, and tend to act impulsively. They are prone to act on momentary whims without considering the consequences, resulting in some deviant behaviors, such as unmarried sex and unmarried pregnancy. Once these behaviors occur, the people involved will be ashamed to see others and live in fear. Even if they don't feel anything at the time, the frustration and inferiority complex they will cause in the future cannot be described in words, and the impact on their emotional life in adulthood is often irreparable.

Disadvantage 4 of early love: early love is extremely difficult to succeed

Due to the blindness and immaturity of early love, those who fall in love early rarely get married. The intervention of parents and schools, the rift in the relationship between the two, further studies, transfers, work and too many other factors have caused the unhealthy baby of early love to die prematurely.

Boys and girls who fall in love prematurely are keen on being alone with their lovers. To avoid being seen, they often find some secluded alleys where there are no acquaintances and stay together with their lovers, hating interference from others. If things go on like this, this world of two will gradually become isolated from the masses. They will rarely interact normally with most classmates in the class, gradually form a gap with the group and classmates, and push themselves into an isolated position.