What to do if your child has a stubborn temper

Generally, preschool children are in the first stage of rebelliousness. At this time, due to factors such as education or environment, they may become stubborn, do not like to follow other people's arrangements, and often have a rebellious mentality. In fact, this situation is easy to solve. As long as parents are appropriately obedient and give reasonable guidance, they will slowly recover.

Personality traits of preschoolers

1. Strong desire for knowledge: love to learn, have a variety of interests, have a relatively stable attention span, and are good at completing what they have started.

2. Friendly: Love to play with other children, get along with them in a friendly manner, and be good at combining his or her own wishes with those of the collective.

3. Love to work: Have strong autonomy, require to dress and eat by themselves, and take the initiative to help adults with things.

4. Be compassionate: care for the elderly, be willing to help others, and do not bully children younger than you.

5. Sense of morality and aesthetics: Have the budding of loving the people and the motherland, and love singing, dancing, reciting poetry, etc.

6. Attitude to overcome difficulties: Try hard to overcome difficulties and find ways to complete the task.

7. Independence gradually develops.

Children's character development

1. Cultivate a lively and cheerful personality.

2. Cultivate independence: First, independence in daily life (such as washing your face, dressing yourself, eating, etc.); second, independence in spiritual life (such as interpersonal communication, self-confidence, etc.).

3. Cultivate decisiveness: that is, be able to make clear and timely decisions when faced with a complex and difficult situation. This requires a brave and calm character. It must be cultivated continuously in daily life.

4. Cultivate persistence: Children should be encouraged to persist in completing their homework and working for the collective.

5. Cultivate self-control: It is necessary to link it with the cultivation of self-consciousness, clarify the purpose and significance of actions, and develop good habits of restraining oneself according to certain requirements.

6. Cultivate communication skills: Cultivate children to get along well with others and take care of others. This requires training from a young age and should be done seriously.

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The influence of family factors on children's personality

1. Parenting style

(1) If parents adopt a more democratic parenting style, their children will be independent, bold, clever, good at interacting and cooperating with others, and have analytical thinking skills;

(2) Parents are too strict and often beat or scold their children, which results in their children being stubborn, cold-blooded, obstinate, or lacking in self-confidence and self-esteem;

(3) When parents overindulge their children, they become willful, lack independence, become emotionally unstable, and become proud;

(4) Parents are overprotective of their children, which results in the children being passive, dependent, silent, and lacking in social skills;

(5) When parents have different opinions on parenting, children will be more alert, try to please both sides, and be more likely to lie and take shortcuts;

(6) When parents adopt a dominant parenting style, the children will become obedient, dependent, and lack independence.

2. Family atmosphere: Generally, a harmonious family atmosphere with mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual support in career and life has a positive influence on a child's character. On the contrary, the juvenile crime rate is high when there are quarrels, estrangement, suspicion or even broken relationships between parents (parents are divorced or die of illness).