How to teach a disobedient child?

Disobedient children always cause parents comparisons and headaches. In fact, this is mainly related to communication and education issues with children. Parents should also realize that if they want to change their children's habits, they must first pay attention to their own words and deeds.

1. Parents are the most important and irreplaceable educators in their children’s lives. 0-6 years old is a critical period for the formation of children’s qualities and good habits. The first two years of a child's life are a critical period for establishing a strong emotional bond with his or her parents, which is the foundation for the child's future psychological growth and for building trusting and loving relationships with others. 50% of all knowledge about life is learned in the first year of life, and 25% in the second year of life. The life knowledge here mainly refers to the ability to love and the development of emotions.

2. If you want to change your child's behavior , parents should change themselves first. Educating children is a process of educating themselves. Children's bad behavior is often passed down directly from the environment or parents. Education by setting an example is the most reliable way to develop moral behavior in children.

3. Cultivating children's spiritual qualities is far more important than developing their intelligence. The spirit is the tree and the mind is the fruit; the spirit is the lamp and the mind is the light. Human intelligence is a reflection of spiritual qualities. If we only focus on the cultivation of skills (such as a variety of early intellectual development interest classes) and neglect the cultivation of children's spiritual qualities, we will only be putting the cart before the horse. When children grow up, their personalities will be defective and their moral development will be hindered.

4. Reasonable discipline. Disciplining children means telling them the standards of behavior, that is, what they can do and what they cannot do. Discipline must be authoritative: When a child is about to make a mistake and we have to discipline him, we must be authoritative. Let your child know that you are serious and that your requests will be accompanied by punishment or rewards. Appropriately restricting children can cultivate their sense of discipline. Of course, the discipline of children must be responsible. And tell your child why you are making the request. Be consistent with your child's father: Parents should be consistent in disciplining their children so that the children can establish a unified standard of behavior. Even if you have objections to your father's discipline, it is best to discuss it with him later when the children are not present. Doing so can also establish the authority of both parents. don't want