What to do if your child is angry?

We all know that when a child is born, he can only cry and is curious about the world, but as he grows up, he will have his own ideas and thoughts. Some children will show their true nature, some have good tempers, but some children will get angry easily. Then things that parents worry about come. Next, let me tell you what we should do if children get angry.

This small but bad-tempered child, besides being stubborn, is also a little clever. They can understand the psychology of adults and have mastered a set of rules: as long as they act like a spoiled child first, then pester them, and finally lose their temper with the adults, they can achieve any goal.

Children lose their temper and act like spoiled brats as a means of blackmailing adults, and they don't want to go too far. However, once the temper flares up, excessive excitement is like a flood that breaks through the dam, rushing and roaring, rationality is lost, and one lets emotions control one's behavior, running wild, leaving no room for any compromise. Afterwards, although the wish was fulfilled, I still felt regretful and even guilty for my behavior when I lost my temper, such as banging my head against the wall and breaking my favorite toys. At the same time, they feel helpless about their own behavior and experience their own powerlessness, so they feel inferior and painful.

First, never scold or physically punish your children.

The second is to hold children tightly and not let them run wild, destroy things, or destroy themselves.

The first principle is important because reprimanding is like adding fuel to the fire, which is counterproductive. In particular, when parents are furious and uncontrollable, they serve as a "role model" for their children to lose their temper. You must know that softness can overcome hardness, but hardness cannot overcome softness.

The focus of the second principle is to use family affection and good wishes to help children control their uncontrollable emotions. Let them stay still for 5 minutes and the outburst of emotions will subside.

After the child has lost his temper, you should have a heart-to-heart talk with him, educate him/her about the dangers of losing temper, and teach him/her to control his/her emotions with reason. Normally, reasonable requests made by children should be proactively met, and unreasonable requests must not be met, no matter how unreasonable they are. Let the children understand that everything must be done reasonably, and they will not be able to make any progress without reason.

For young children with bad tempers, parents must be consistent in their educational tone and avoid going in opposite directions; education must be persisted, and after a period of time, the situation will get better.

When we treat children, we must give them a free space and let them have a childhood. If we enroll them in tutoring classes from a young age, make them do homework until the early morning, and put them in solitary confinement if they do not do well in exams, then over time the children will go from being angry to depressed. Therefore, it is better to give them a flower-like childhood and let them have a happy space than to lock them up. Children are the ones who need the most protection.