What should I do if my child is always angry?

Parents and friends all regard their children as treasures in the palm of their hands. They are afraid that the baby will melt if they hold it in their mouths, and afraid that the baby will fall if they hold it in their hands. The baby is the emperor or the little princess. The baby cannot control his emotions. Once something does not go against his wishes, he will lose his temper. It is okay if parents can coax him once or twice, but if he is always angry, parents and friends cannot stand it. Sometimes he is angry for no reason. So, what should we do if our children are always angry?

Understand and accept your child’s emotions.

Pat his shoulder, or hug him, and say to him, "Are you angry? Mom knows you are angry." Allow him to sob for a while in your arms or leaning on you.

Squat down and look at the problems and situations they are facing from the perspective of a child, and guide and resolve them appropriately in a child's way.

"Look at how you look when you are angry, it's like this." Imitate the way he looks when he is angry, "Be 'angry' again, mom will see." Imitate the way he looks when he is angry again, and it would be best if you make it more exaggerated. Make him laugh first. Then direct his attention elsewhere. At this point, there is no need to press the issue and reason with him. For young children, reasoning with him will only remind him of the unpleasant experience that just happened. It’s better to wait until he is older, or explain the truth to him after a while.

What parents need to do to cultivate good emotions

Parents should infect their children with happy and joyful emotions.

Because emotions can be contagious and influence each other, especially in young children. Parents and teachers should consciously infect them with happy and joyful emotions. Children who are often angry and anxious are basically affected by their parents' emotions. Some young children have bad tempers and often get angry even though their parents are in a good mood because their parents over-indulge and indulge them.

We should carefully understand the needs of children and provide appropriate satisfaction.

Children have various physical and psychological needs. If some of these needs are reasonable and within the reach of adults, they should be met. This will help them remain emotionally stable and happy.

If your child is obsessed with watching TV, but when it is time to go to bed, the mother will immediately turn off the TV and order him to go to bed.

At first, this simple, quick treatment method will provoke your child to cry and make a fuss. Later, the parents discussed changing their methods. When it was time to go to bed and the child was still watching TV, the mother would say, "Good baby, you'll go to sleep after watching for a while, right?" or she would say, "When I say one, two, three, you'll go to bed, okay?" This would give the child room for emotional changes and thinking, and the child would be more easily adaptable when the request was made.

What psychology experts say:

Emotions are a person's attitude toward the world and people he or she comes into contact with, as well as the corresponding behavioral responses. People's emotional life is rich and colorful: happiness, excitement, sadness, fear, anger, fear, worry and so on. For young children, emotional experiences are everywhere. As developmental psychologists say, "The world of young children is a world of emotions."

Losing temper is actually a sign of a baby's weak will and lack of self-control. The reason for this depends largely on the parents' educational methods, such as over-indulging the baby and meeting all the baby's requests. Parents should take appropriate measures to solve this problem. First of all, when disciplining a baby, parents should show concern and try to reason with the baby. Never hit or scold your baby, as this will hurt his or her self-esteem and leave an indelible mark.

Parents should give their babies the opportunity to vent, understand their babies' behavior, and not regard all of their temper tantrums as unreasonable. Parents and friends should understand the reasons for the temper tantrum so that they can better comfort their babies. Encourage babies to communicate with parents and express their troubles. Parents should not be too impatient and think that the baby will be well behaved if they just take care of him. Instead, they should take it slow and trust the baby.