What are the dangers of spanking a child on the back?

Quality-oriented education is now advocated, which not only puts corresponding requirements on schools, but also on parents. Quality education requires parents to have good qualities themselves first. This is what parents need to do most before educating their children. However, many parents really lack quality and always do dirty things in front of their children. Some children always beat and scold their children, so what are the harms of beating children on the back?

These three consequences of beating children are worth your consideration:

1. Imitation of violent environment has a great impact on children's growth and development. The kind of environment a child grows up in is likely to determine what kind of person he will become. Therefore, if parents always deal with their children's mistakes with violence, when the children interact with others, they will also fight with others because the other party cannot satisfy them. This is not conducive to the children's future interpersonal communication and development.

2. Children who grow up under this kind of stick usually have distorted personalities and will develop in two extreme ways. One possibility is that children will fight against this domestic violence, their personalities will become violent, and by the time they reach adolescence they will no longer obey their parents, but instead resort to violence and rise up in resistance. This kind of child may have many adverse effects in his future work and life. Another situation is that the child may develop a cowardly character, fearing that he or she may not do something right and make his or her parents angry, and then suffer physical pain. This can easily cause the child to develop a timid and cowardly character.

3. Impact on parent-child relationship. Every parent loves their child very much. I believe that parents will feel distressed when they see their children crying after beating them. But some parents can't help themselves when they see their naughty children. In fact, using force to educate children will most of the time only make the children temporarily submit, and it can't really convince the children. So beating children not only hurts the children's hearts, but also fails to achieve the due educational purpose, which is really not advisable.