How to spank a child most painfully

When children at home are naughty, some parents always use beating and scolding to educate them. This way of education is inappropriate, especially some parents like to spank their children, thinking that children have more flesh on their buttocks and it will not affect their health. In fact, this idea is completely wrong. Spanking is very harmful. It will damage the child's intelligence and easily cause adverse effects on the child's internal organs.

How to spank a child most painfully

You don't have to spank your child to discipline him. You need to fully understand your child. Why is he disobedient? What does he have his own ideas? Communicate with him more. Corporal punishment may not necessarily make a child obedient, and may make the child more rebellious. First of all, children should not be beaten when being educated. Instead, they should be appreciated and educated, and attention should be paid to the methods and approaches. Guidance: Think about the reasons why children are disobedient. Sometimes it is caused by rebellious psychology. Try a different approach. It is not recommended to hit children.

The harm of spanking

The harm caused by spanking to children is thousands of times more serious than you can imagine! This is by no means alarmist. Don't think that children's buttocks are resistant to spanking. Although the surface will only turn red and purple after spanking, these few spanks are enough to harm the child's internal organs, which you cannot see with the naked eye.

Brain damage

Don't disbelieve it, the butt and the head are actually related. Don’t think that your butt is a piece of “dead meat” and it doesn’t matter how you hit it. In fact, there are many sciatic nerves on the buttocks, and gently patting the buttocks will not do any harm to your health. But when you slap your child's butt too hard, it can easily damage the nerve endings, and the feeling of pain will be transmitted through the nerve centers to stimulate the child's brain. If a child's buttocks is suddenly hit and the force is transmitted through the spine to the atlanto-occipital joint, it may cause overall deformation of the skull and cause damage to the brain stem. The consequences are disastrous!

Kidney damage

Spanking a child's buttocks can easily damage his or her kidneys. There were news reports earlier that a parent spanked a child, causing the child to suffer kidney failure. On the one hand, it is because the child's kidneys are located relatively low, and parents may hit their children indiscriminately when they are angry, which may harm the child's kidneys if they are not careful. On the other hand, spanking will put excessive pressure on the buttocks, making blood vessels more likely to rupture. When blood stasis occurs under the skin, it will increase the burden on the kidneys and endanger the kidney's excretion function. Since the kidneys are important organs for detoxification in the human body, in severe cases, acute renal failure may occur, eventually leading to shock.

Damage to intelligence

Spanking may affect the development of a child's IQ, causing intellectual retardation and mental retardation. In 2010, American correctional and domestic violence experts published the results of a four-year study involving 1,510 children. The study found that in a group of 806 children aged 2-4, the average IQ of children who did not suffer corporal punishment was 5 points higher than those who were frequently beaten; while in another group of 704 children aged 5-9, the gap was 2.8 points.

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When parents spank their children frequently, it not only causes visible physical pain, but also leaves psychological trauma on the children. This may cause children to develop a rebellious mentality, or even cause them to imitate their parents' behavior and use violence to solve problems. If a child is timid by nature, beating and scolding will only make him more cowardly and inferior. Studies have found that spanking children can easily make them hostile toward others, and when they grow up, they are more likely to use violence against their parents, siblings, friends and future spouses.