What causes children to be angry?

Children's emotional problems make parents feel very helpless, because children's emotions fluctuate and they can easily lose their temper over small incidents, or even become crazy. This is a manifestation of children being easily angry, which is extremely detrimental to the child's physical and mental development. Let's take a look at the reasons why children are easily angry. I hope everyone can understand it.

Under normal circumstances, there are generally two reasons: one reason is that children aged 3 to 6 already have a certain social awareness and a desire for "independence". He wants to do some things by himself, develops self-awareness, and begins to feel disgusted with adults taking care of everything for him and manipulating him. He wants to "rebel" against adults' manipulation and try to solve some things independently. However, due to his limited abilities, insufficient social knowledge and experience, and the wrong methods of solving problems, he often ends up making things worse. When his wishes cannot be fulfilled, he becomes anxious and loses his temper.

Another reason is that adults force him to do something and he is unwilling to accept it, but the adults insist that he do it, so he uses temper tantrums to vent his inner dissatisfaction. Of course, there is another situation. Some parents spoil their children too much. As long as the children lose their temper, the parents will satisfy any of their children's wishes. Over time, the children understand the adults' psychology and will threaten the adults by losing their temper in order to meet their own demands.

The best way to help children overcome temper tantrums is to take preventive measures before they occur and reduce or avoid the opportunities for children to lose their temper. For the first reason, parents should boldly let go and let their children do things within their ability or solve some problems independently. When children encounter difficulties, they can be given some guidance appropriately. For the second reason, parents should be careful not to force their children to do things they don’t want to do. They can explain the reasons and appeal to their emotions to attract them to do it willingly. If a child makes unreasonable requests, you should explain to him/her why you cannot satisfy his/her request, or use other things to divert the child's attention so that he/she temporarily forgets his/her request.