What to do if your child has poor self-control

What parents worry about most is their children at home, especially for those children who are already in school. Parents' worries will not decrease at all. Parents hope that their children will have better self-control so that they can learn more actively and complete their homework better. However, most children have poor self-control. What should we do if children have poor self-control?

1. Always put the blame on yourself

Children's inner world is relatively fragile. If they lose something they like, or if their parents often quarrel in front of them, then children are likely to feel guilty and think that everything is their fault.

2. Always unhappy

If a child cannot control his emotions well, he will fly into a rage if things don't go his way, and sometimes even hit others. This will affect the development of the child's healthy personality and good character.

3. You are jealous of others

If a child is too possessive, does not like to cooperate or share with others, and sometimes has a competitive mentality, he or she will often be jealous of others.

4. Always lack of security

If parents protect their children too well or often scare them, the children will lack a sense of security and become too dependent on them. If they lack the ability to control their emotions, they will often feel scared.

5. I always feel sad

Some children feel aggrieved in their hearts, but dare not tell others casually. Sometimes when they lose something they like, no one comforts them or understands them. Over time, the child's ability to control emotions is poor, and he may always feel sad.

Why do some children have poor self-control? The consequences of poor control are so serious

Cultivate children's ability to control emotions:

First, parents should pay more attention to their children, understand their inner thoughts, and learn to respect their children;

Second, mom and dad should also control their emotions, not be emotional in front of their children, and slowly teach their children the importance of controlling emotions and how to control emotions.