How to educate a child who curses?

Children are not only very curious, but also have a strong ability to imitate. If children often grow up in a bad environment, they are prone to swearing and cursing. At this time, parents need to educate them, otherwise it will increase the difficulty of correction, and swearing will also affect the quality of children. So how to educate children who swear? Let us learn about it together.

First, how should we educate children when they swear? Some parents may beat and scold their children directly when their children swear, without thinking twice. This is actually wrong and may have a negative impact on the children and is not conducive to their healthy growth. The correct approach, the first step, is to directly tell the child, "What you said made Dad/Mom sad, and I am very angry now." The child may then reflect on his/her behavior just now, which will help him/her realize his/her mistakes and apologize for his/her behavior.

Second, communicate with your child seriously and ask him/her why he/she says swear words, so that you can discover the misunderstandings between you and your child. Explain your meaning to your child, because it is precisely because the child and you have different understandings of some words that lead to unpleasant behavior. Communicate with your child further and tell him/her possible actions when he/she swears. For example, the first option is to beat or scold the child directly, and the second option is to communicate with the child and find out the misunderstanding and solve the problem. Let your child choose which method is better, so that next time when a misunderstanding occurs with others, the child will make the correct solution and will not swear anymore.

How to educate a child if he/she swears? Parents cannot swear, and the child’s kindergarten teacher cannot swear. Other children in the kindergarten are not allowed to "use swear words continuously for a long time."

Don’t create an environment with a lot of swear words for your child. If other children in the kindergarten always swear, be sure to ask the teacher to handle it.

There are two situations when children swear. One is that their emotions are not serious and they are just a little unhappy, so they swear to vent. For example, if a child wants to eat snacks and the parents don't give them to him, the child will say, "You are crazy, why don't you give them to me?"

Parents should pay attention first, keep their emotions stable, don’t get angry, and calm down for a while. When I feel relaxed, I walk to the child and say to him in a very gentle but firm tone: "I heard some bad words coming out of your mouth. Come with me to the bathroom and spit those bad words into the toilet.

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