Why do children not like to talk?

In the process of taking care of children, parents should pay attention to their every move, especially some children have grown to a certain stage, but are always silent. In this case, attention should be paid, because sometimes it may be caused by some pathological factors, such as developmental delay, cerebral palsy or hearing impairment, and children suffering from autism. These are more serious problems that require attention and treatment.

1. Environmental factors. Families speak multiple dialects to their children. For example, the father speaks Mandarin, the mother speaks Cantonese, the grandfather speaks Shanghainese, and the nanny speaks Shaanxi dialect. The child was at a loss as to what to say.

2. Pathological factors. Some diseases, such as intellectual disability, cerebral palsy, hearing impairment, childhood autism, central nervous system damage or dysfunction, etc., can lead to delayed speech, and there may also be other corresponding abnormal manifestations. Children with mild intellectual developmental delay start speaking 1 to 3 years later than normal. In addition, some children may have a temporary delay in speech development when they are learning to walk (from walking with support to walking alone), but their speech will develop quickly after they can walk.

3. Psychological problems. Because children have unclear pronunciation when they first start speaking, they say "hairy donkey" as "hairy fish roe" and "steamed bun" as "steamed bun", which causes adults to laugh at them and makes children afraid to speak.

4. Personality issues. Some children are introverted and don't like to talk. They like quietness and are unwilling to express their wishes and ideas.

5. The problem of education. Parents are too strict with their children, often blame and restrict them; parents are busy with their own affairs or are taciturn, and have too little or no communication with their children, causing the children to live in a very quiet environment from birth, delaying their speaking time; the family environment is not harmonious or many things are taken care of by the parents, so that the children do not get any exercise.