What are the reasons why children are lonely?

Many parents hope that their children are extroverted, lively, and can play with other children at any time. However, there are many children who are more introverted. They like to be alone and do not like to play with other children. This will make parents feel uneasy and nervous. In fact, there are reasons for children's introverted personalities. If parents find the reasons, they can eliminate their children's introverted personalities.

The reasons why children are withdrawn

1. Genetic related

Many people believe that blood type affects personality. Well, blood type is inherited from parents, and natural personality is more or less related to genetic genes. It is often found that family members have similar auras, either quiet and introverted or lively and active. Some people say that for the sake of future children, one should find a husband who is humorous and sunny. It seems that this is not groundless.

2. Parents’ educational concepts

Some parents advocate traditional education and teach their children to cultivate their character from an early age. Children with such strict family education are mostly introverted and docile. Some parents have learned from Western educational experiences and are very open-minded in educating their children. They encourage their children to make friends widely, and naturally they can educate their children to be lively and outgoing. By sharp contrast, it is not difficult to see that parents who are serious are more likely to raise children with introverted personalities. Therefore, it makes sense to say that the reason for a child's introverted personality lies with the parents.

3. Less contact with the outside world

Parents should pay more attention to their children's personalities, make improvements in their education, and create opportunities for their children to interact with the outside world.

Things to note when your child is withdrawn

1. Carry out family education correctly

Columbia University psychologist Dice believes that the family is the first school to learn interpersonal relationships. In other words, children's interpersonal skills are first formed in the process of emotional communication with their family members. Children will learn how to obtain and express love, and learn basic ways of speaking, gestures, expressions and communication methods through emotional communication with their parents.

2. Correctly evaluate and understand yourself and others

On the one hand, we must correctly understand the harm of being unsociable. Being unsociable can only bring pain to oneself and deprive oneself of the joy of life. In the society and at work, one will not be able to unite and cooperate with others and will eventually be eliminated by the society. On the other hand, we must correctly understand others and ourselves, strive to find our own strengths and see our own weaknesses.

3. Learn communication skills and improve your personality

Take the initiative to find some relevant books and learn communication skills. At the same time, participate in more group activities such as sports, literature and art, open yourself up in these activities, and treat others sincerely and frankly. Be brave to interact with others, listen to their opinions with an open mind, and at the same time have the desire to become friends with everyone. In this way, you can gain something from every interaction, enrich your knowledge and experience, and correct your cognitive biases.