8 great tips to cultivate a new good boy

1. Give your son kisses and hugs

Don't think that this is only for girls, and don't be afraid that this will make the boy effeminate. Your kisses and hugs will invisibly convey your deep love to him and make him feel valued.

2. Discuss things with your son

This will help him improve his language and social skills, two areas in which boys often lag behind girls of the same age.

3. Let your son freely release all his emotions

In the past, boys would be laughed at if they showed timidity and shyness. Now, don’t laugh at him; let him express himself boldly.

4. Cultivate a quiet and gentle temperament

If he likes to play with toys and dolls that he holds in his hands - great, cultivate that quiet and gentle temperament. If he doesn't like it, don't force him. Let him play whatever he wants. Don't control him.

5. Don’t be afraid to express your emotions

How will you react when you see that your son is no longer in your sight? Will you get angry easily and shout his name loudly? In fact, your anger cannot cover up your fear. If you show him your true emotions, he will learn to express his own emotions, so don't hide them and tell him that you are really scared that you can't see him.

6. Make the rules clear so that he has something to follow

In the same environment, boys are more likely to feel insecure and fearful. They are eager to know what the underlying rules of the surrounding environment are and whether they will be treated fairly.

7. When boys reach the age to go to kindergarten, they often show a cold and indifferent attitude.

Therefore, we should work with our children to cultivate good habits of loving learning, reading, and making friends from an early age, so that they will have an expectation for learning and socializing.

8. Teach your son not to snatch things

When playing with other children, you should first ask your son which toys he can play with his friends and which toys others cannot touch. Then hide the toys that he wants to enjoy alone to avoid conflicts.

Generally speaking, parents are always stricter in educating their sons than their daughters, but parents should be aware that all children want to be loved, so don't be stingy with your kisses and hugs from boys.