What's wrong with the child who is always in a daze?

Children are innocent, lively and active, which always gives their families a headache, worrying that they might be in danger. However, some children are not lively and always like to daydream. Although such children are very obedient, parents are still worried that they cannot live a good life, have mental illnesses, or even show signs of illness. So, what is the general reason for children to be in a daze? How should we deal with it?

1. How to define daze

Daydreaming is actually a process of self-relaxation and self-regulation. Outsiders felt that he was stupid, thinking that he had stopped thinking and was like a piece of wood. In fact, on the contrary, this is the time when a person's mind is most active. He is just imaginative and independent, isolated from the outside world, but that is his own world.

Children need to be alone, need to reflect on themselves, and need to have a completely free and independent inner life. Daydreaming is a kind of such inner life and a relatively relaxed state.

2. Daydreaming can relieve stress

Children also have a lot of anxiety and stress in daily life, so they need some ways to release it. Daydreaming is actually a way for children to relax. At this time, he forgot or ignored the existence of pressure. This is a kind of self-regulation, which can achieve psychological self-healing.

Another state is that the child does not have any specific questions in his mind. For example, when I was a child, I loved cooking and staring at the fire. My thoughts seemed to be diffused in the firelight. At that time, we used firewood. The red flames kept jumping there. It seemed that there was no change, but in fact, it was always changing. At this time, the thinking was relatively free and would break some conventional thinking. This was a state of freedom, so when the child was in a daze, I didn't want to disturb him.

3. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a moment of tranquility

When you are upset, the best thing to do is to be alone. Why did the ancients fast before major events? It was to calm themselves down, stop the luxury and bustle, simplify the enjoyment of the senses, and let their hearts return to tranquility. Those who calm down not only gain wisdom, but also gain strength. Therefore, the ancients said that without tranquility, one cannot go far. A journey of a thousand miles begins with tranquility.

The so-called tranquility is not just about not making any noise and sitting there quietly. True tranquility is a calmness, purity and peace of mind. Only when you calm down can you be with yourself, gather your inner strength, and concentrate on solving problems. Learn to be alone and learn to reflect on yourself. In this sense, tranquility leads to far-reaching results. To accomplish anything great, one must have inner awakening to generate motivation.