What should I do if my child refuses to go to school?

As parents, we all hope that our children will study hard and get good grades in English, so that parents will feel more at ease. However, if the child refuses to go to school, it will make parents particularly worried. If you find that your child particularly dislikes going to school, don’t be anxious at this time. First, you must enter the child’s inner world, so that you can find the reason why the child refuses to go to school, and only in this way can you find an effective solution.

What should I do if my child refuses to go to school?

Going to school is a process of learning knowledge specially designed for the growth of children. Learning is a necessary homework for everyone. In the true sense, not everyone has to learn. Some people say that billionaires don’t need to learn. On the contrary, the richer the family, the more they pay attention to educational knowledge. So, do those who don’t have money in the family don’t need to study? On the contrary, poorer families need more knowledge to change their fate, because knowledge is the only way to open up human wisdom.

1. Let children take the initiative to be interested in learning

A common reason why children don't like to study is that they don't have a certain understanding of learning. They think learning is boring and meaningless, and they haven't realized the usefulness of learning. So parents should let their children get in touch with the knowledge they learn in their daily lives. Children who are young like to complete tasks independently and be praised by their parents to prove themselves. Parents should inspire and stimulate their children to study. Parents should let their children feel that they can complete tasks independently through real life, and let their children feel the joy of success after learning.

2. Parents should not often say that their children are stupid and express negative emotions.

Chinese people are also deeply influenced by traditional education. Compared with education abroad, Chinese parents often do not express their love for their children too much, nor do they often express their children's goodness. Many parents keep their love for their children deep in their hearts. They rarely say it out loud. They praise their children more often than scold them. When children do not have good academic performance, parents always say that their children are stupid. The purpose is to stimulate their children to make progress. However, this educational method of parents is not good. Frequently saying that children are stupid, saying that children are not learning materials and other negative emotional language will seriously affect children's self-confidence and cause them to feel inferior.

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3. Children who are not good at studying avoid studying

Learning is like a bucket. Only when the bucket does not leak water can the bucket become fuller and fuller. The same is true for children's learning. Children's academic performance is not good. They forget what they learned in the beginning and when they need the foundation as support, they have already forgotten it. Children's academic performance is too poor and they really don't want to go to school to study. For children in this situation, their learning efficiency and learning ability are relatively poor. Parents need to go to an attention training institution to improve their children's learning ability, so that children can go from avoiding to facing difficulties and solving them.

4. Often have poor attention in class

Many parents believe that their children's poor academic performance is caused by poor attention. Many parents do not know that their children's attention is poor in class. If they do not correct their children's problem, their children's attention will become worse and worse. The children will indulge themselves and gradually lose their self-control and restraint. The children will gradually become dissatisfied with the inattention and distraction in class and will think that it is better not to go to school. The children will gradually become tired of studying and unwilling to go to school.