What are the effects of frequent moving on children?

As we all know, the environment is very important for a child, especially for babies who are in the growth period. Changes in the external environment have a great impact on the child. If parents move frequently, it will cause the child to feel psychologically insecure. The child's world view and values ​​are not formed during the period of growth. If they are affected by negative external factors, it is easy to go astray.

When moving, parents should first consider whether the location and environment of the new home are conducive to the growth of their children. Try not to move in a place with many entertainment venues. Not only will the children not have a good learning environment, but long-term exposure to the environment will also have a negative impact on their physical and mental development.

If you have to move, it is recommended that parents choose a place near schools or educational institutions. This way, children will be influenced by such a good external environment and will unknowingly learn those excellent things.

Parents should think carefully before moving. Unless it is for extremely special reasons or the current external environment of the family is not good, try not to move, because the living habits and interpersonal relationships that the children have worked hard to form in the old home will all be invalidated, and they will need to adapt to everything again when they move to a new environment.

Frequent moving will also make your child more and more introverted, unwilling to contact new things and people around him. Over time, the child will develop an inferiority complex, which is very detrimental to his growth.

If moving is beneficial to the child's growth, it should be encouraged. We all know the story of "Mencius' Mother Moved Three Times". Mencius' mother moved three times so that her children could have a good environment to live and study. Facts have proved that these three moves did play a crucial role in Mencius' growth.

Moving has a very important impact on children, so parents are expected to fully consider their children’s feelings when moving.

Xiaoke thinks there will be. In fact, if you move to a house you bought, then Xiaoke thinks that this move will not have much psychological impact on the child. But if you move to a rented house and may move frequently in the future, then Xiaoke thinks that this will really have an impact on the child.

If you are renting a house, I wonder if you have noticed that your baby probably doesn't have any fixed friends around him, just like Xiaoke before. Because you rent a house, you often think about moving to another house, and then the child doesn't have fixed playmates around him. When you move to a new place, the child has to find new friends, and she will often ask Xiaoke where her original friends are.

If you have been planning to rent a house, then Xiaoke also recommends that you do not change your address frequently. Children need friends who grew up together, just like when we were children, we needed childhood friends who grew up together. This kind of affection is the most precious. If you change your address frequently, then the child will feel afraid to make friends because he doesn’t know when he will move away again and lose these special friends. Adults may think that it’s no big deal and that if they don’t have friends, they can just make new ones. But it’s not so easy to make friends.

Our generation is actually much happier than children today. We didn’t have to go to cram school every day or change schools frequently. We could play to our heart’s content and hang out with our childhood friends all day long. Although the children of this generation may have better material conditions than us, their childhood was unhappy. They had endless cram schools and interest classes every day, and no friends to play with on Saturdays and Sundays. If the friends they met in school were separated because of moving, then they must be quite lonely inside, with no sense of belonging or security.

Generally not, don't think too much about it. The child is not that fragile. If he is even traumatized by moving, then he won’t be able to go out and play.