What are the problems in children’s education?

In the process of educating children, parents will encounter various problems, especially when children reach the rebellious period. Many of the children's behaviors will be unacceptable to the parents. In this process, parents will also do many wrong things. For example, they always like to educate their children with their own eyes and will not consider things from the perspective of their children, which will lead to rifts between parents and children. Usually, the following problems are most likely to occur in the process of children's education.

What are the problems in children’s education?

1. Is an obedient and well-behaved baby a good one?

Adults like obedient babies, and especially like to say prohibitive warnings such as "no, not allowed, not allowed", etc. If the baby gives a reason, the parents will always interrupt rudely: "If you say no, then no!" Mom and Dad will always use their status as parents to suppress the baby, thinking that obedient babies are good. The rude attitude of parents will make the baby feel aggrieved, and even if they do it, it is under oppression.

Therefore, when facing the baby, parents must use a gentle and firm attitude and tone to make the baby obey first. If you don’t understand, explain the reason clearly and also let your baby express his or her own ideas. The key is to let the baby understand why, rather than simply listening to the parents.

2. Buying this and that means you love him?

Nowadays, with the development of technology and the rich variety of goods, there are a wide variety of toys, snacks, baby products, etc. on the market. Mom, dad and four elderly people have only one baby, so they have to use the best of everything. I always respond to my baby’s requests, but is this a manifestation of love for my baby? Such blind giving will only make the baby blind as well, not knowing how hard money is to come by, not knowing how to be grateful and give, and developing a habit of comparison.

3. Is the baby pampered and aristocratic?

Parents think it is reasonable for girls to be a little pampered, especially those parents who regard their daughters as the apple of their eyes. They even think that girls who are a little pampered have aristocratic temperament. A few days ago, there was a news report that a girl who was 25 or 26 years old still asked her mother to dress her. This is the result of pampering girls too much, and it is not good for their growth.

4. Is it too feminine for a boy to do housework?

As the old saying goes: If you can't even clean your own house, how can you clean the world? Does a boy appear feminine when he does housework? If you think like this, you are totally wrong. Everyone should have basic self-care ability, and doing housework from a young age can exercise fine motor skills, so why not do it?

5. Does being violent mean loving violence?

Some babies are naughty and especially like to imitate. After seeing fighting and killing in movies and TV, they will play with other children. Fighting and swearing also happen frequently. Parents will have a headache and worry that their baby will become a violent person. In fact, it is not that serious. Parents should be good at guiding their baby's sense of right and wrong. The baby's aggressive behavior may be because he is in a bad mood but cannot express it, or he may just be making a fuss without knowing the limits. Parents should clearly tell their children that hitting others is a very wrong behavior and that they will be very angry, and help them find better ways to vent and play.

6.Are girls born to study liberal arts?

Girls are naturally beautiful, gentle, and have rich and delicate emotions. They seem to have a talent for writing, language, and art. It is true that there are more boys who are good at math, physics and chemistry, but there are also many outstanding girls. When educating a baby, you still have to consider the baby's preferences and focus on educating the baby according to his interests and hobbies.

7. Should boys not dress up and pursue beauty?

It is women’s nature to love beauty, but does that mean men cannot love beauty as well? Babies seem to have a sense of autonomy since they are 2 years old. They want to do everything by themselves and choose their own clothes. This is actually very good. It is normal for babies to have their own opinions and personalities, and to have requirements for their own clothes. It is a sign of growing up. What parents need to do is not to stop their children, but to guide and teach them healthy aesthetic values.

8. Should girls be punished less?

Many parents are reluctant to hit girls. Of course, beating, scolding or punishing them is not a good way, but rewards and punishments should be clearly defined. Whether it is a boy or a girl, a mistake is a mistake, and appropriate punishment measures should be formulated instead of solving the problem by crying and making a fuss.

9. Is it a good thing for baby girls to have snacks?

One of the characteristics of girls is that they love snacks. There is nothing wrong with eating snacks, but it needs to be in a certain amount, because snacks are not good if they affect your health. Children have poor self-control, and eating too many snacks will be harmful to their health. This has nothing to do with a girl's appetite.