How to educate a 3-year-old child who loves crying

Three-year-old children are not only in the golden period of physical development, but also an important period for character development. Therefore, when taking care of a three-year-old child, parents must set an example. We try our best to cultivate an independent character in children, but because three-year-olds are not mature enough, they will cry and make a fuss when they encounter difficulties and setbacks. At this time, when parents find their children crying, how should they educate them correctly?

What are the educational methods for 3-year-old children who love to cry?

1. Understand your child’s sensitivity. Sensitive children feel pain more strongly than other children, and it is not wise to stop them from crying. Parents should help their children gradually become stronger through understanding, sympathy and encouragement.

2. Cold treatment. When faced with some unprincipled demands from children, parents should insist on not agreeing or ignoring them, let the child cry freely, and after the child calms down, analyze with him why his demands were not met, and ask him not to make such unreasonable demands next time.

3. Conditional exchange method. If the child will not stop crying, you can agree to his conditions first, but at the same time also ask him to agree to one condition of yours and tell him that there will be a serious consequence if he does not do it. Of course, what we adults ask must be what the child can do, such as telling his parents what happened at school next time, in exchange. In addition, we must do what we promised him, so that it will be convincing, so as to improve the child's willful and bad temper.

4. Encouragement method. Encouragement and praise are always the best fertile soil for cultivating a seedling. In an atmosphere of encouragement and appreciation, the child will become more and more confident and will become more and more intimate with you. When the hearts of parents and children are close, the child will be more willing to communicate with you parents, and he will be more willing to adopt your ideas, and the child will also become more gentle.

Why does a 3-year-old baby cry?

1. Innate temperament causes children to cry. Some children are born sensitive and crybaby. They often lose their temper and complain about trivial matters. Even if there is nothing unpleasant, it is not easy to make them laugh. Sensitivity, like shyness, aggressiveness, and sociability, is a person's personality trait and is innate.

2. Crying is just a means of getting something. Parents nowadays have few children and they love them too much. They are afraid that their children will cry. Therefore, whenever the children cry, adults always satisfy them and compromise with them, making the children feel that "crying to get what you want" or "avoiding doing things you don't want to do" is very effective.

3. The parents’ attitude is too strict and the adults are too fierce. They speak harshly to the children for the slightest thing, which scares the children and makes them become crybaby "little wives" to win sympathy.

4. They are often neglected by their parents, who cannot even fully meet their children’s basic needs. For example: children whose parents are not often with them or close to them; or adults are always busy taking care of the children or doing their own things.