Psychological weaning period?

Psychological weaning is a common physiological phenomenon in daily life. Generally, the child used to be psychologically dependent on his parents, and now shows independent intentions. In fact, this shows that the child has made psychological progress. Therefore, parents should look at this phenomenon correctly. The psychological weaning period is generally the most important period for children. Parents should learn to respect their children when their children show independent intentions.

Parents' attitudes towards children during the psychological weaning period

understand

It is not enough for parents to be satisfied with understanding their children superficially. Parents must learn some psychological knowledge and understand the essence of the "psychological weaning period." The psychological weaning period is essentially a period when adolescents gradually become independent from their dependence on their parents as they grow physically and mentally, and are able to make their own judgments and solve new problems they face. This is a person's socialization process, and it is necessary to establish a close and equal friendship with them; we must believe that children have the ability to handle things independently. This is a period of transition from immaturity to maturity. During this period, different children will have different states depending on the degree of transformation, and they are very eager for their parents' understanding.

respect

Parents should respect their children's self-esteem more and support them as much as possible, especially when they encounter difficulties or failures. They should help them analyze the events and their own psychology, and come up with a feasible solution that can be accepted by the children without overstepping the rules of the world. On the other hand, parents should not indulge their children's unreasonable behavior that hurts themselves and others, especially extreme behavior, which should be stopped. However, parents must remember to use persuasive methods that children can accept, and avoid head-on confrontation, which may hurt the self-esteem of some sensitive children and cause them to close their hearts and stop communicating with their parents.

Give Space

In addition, parents should understand that from the moment a child is born, he or she is an independent living being who cannot be arranged or controlled, nor can his or her happiness and suffering in life be predicted or planned. Letting children grow up and mature seems to mean losing the feeling of owning children. This is a difficult and painful process for parents, especially mothers, but please understand and respect life and give children space and opportunities to grow. "If jade is not polished, it will not become a useful object." Sometimes, children can grow and become stronger by experiencing some unstoppable hardships. In the future, they will also be more mature, more experienced, stronger and braver. Growth and transformation are like a butterfly breaking out of its cocoon; the pain and struggle are indescribable, but without this hardship, growth would not appear so dazzling and beautiful.