What should I do if my child has a bad temper?

Why are many babies relatively well-behaved while some babies seem to have very bad tempers? This is mainly related to the daily education of their parents. If parents do not understand education, then the child's character will definitely be affected. If a child has a bad temper, it will cause certain harm when he grows up, and it will be difficult for him to handle things calmly. So, what is the best way for parents to deal with children with bad tempers?

1. Discipline is not punishment

There are many reasons why children make mistakes and act naughty. The most important thing is that we need to understand clearly why children make mistakes. Children may make mistakes out of childishness, jealousy, panic, fatigue, stress, or frustration. We should spend more time playing with our children, reading books together, and building a good parent-child relationship. A deep understanding of our children's minds helps us choose appropriate discipline methods. Anticipating possible naughty behavior in children can help us prescribe the right medicine. For example, if we are afraid that our child will have a tantrum in the supermarket, before we go out, we'd better explain to him our shopping plans and what we expect from him.

2. Cold treatment is important

Don't think that children are only concerned with throwing tantrums; they are actually secretly observing your reaction. When you encounter this kind of situation, you must remain unyielding despite the might. Ignore him and make it clear to your child that you have seen through his tricks and that they won't work. In order to make the cold treatment effective, we must do a good job of ideological work among the older generation in advance and never let a "Cheng Yaojin" show up halfway. In addition, parents should remind themselves not to be infected by their children's bad temper. If the child does not listen to your advice, tell yourself that people are like this when they are angry. Give him some time to cool down.

3. Food can adjust your personality

What your children eat determines not only how much they weigh, but also how well they feel and behave. For these children, parents should pay special attention to whether they are lacking in foods rich in calcium and magnesium. Since calcium helps the conduction of nerve stimulation, a lack of calcium will prevent children's nerves from relaxing, causing mental tension and bad temper. Likewise, a lack of magnesium can interfere with nerve activity and cause irritability and nervousness. Parents can add milk, soy products, kelp, dried fish, loach, bananas, apples, nuts and dark green leafy vegetables to the diet.

4. Distract Your Attention

Many children like to act unreasonably, wanting to attract adults' attention or get certain rewards. There are many reasons for this. For example, some children do not like to brush their teeth, so every time they brush their teeth, they will deliberately make trouble or make noise; some children do not let their parents leave, and even if their parents are in a hurry to go to work, they just don’t let them wait. When dealing with young children, the approach of reasoning as taught in the books is definitely not feasible. Children care more about their own feelings, and if you force them to submit with a tough attitude, both adults and children will be very angry. A better way is to find ways to divert his attention, giving him a sense of freshness without violating the parents' principles.