What to do if your 4 year old is rebellious?

As children grow up, they will show some rebellious behavior to a certain extent. Almost all children will rebel, so this is a normal phenomenon. Parents need to learn to look at it objectively. Most parents will be very troubled by their children's rebellious behavior. Many parents will resort to violence to solve the problem. This solution is definitely wrong and can easily lead to increased rebellious behavior in children. Therefore, the following introduces scientific methods to solve children's rebelliousness.

What to do if your 4 year old is rebellious?

Generally, babies between 3 and 4 years old have enhanced self-awareness, but their language ability is not fully developed, so they cannot use many words. However, some babies cannot control their emotions well, and will continue to say no when someone is not satisfied with them. However, they are prone to crying. In fact, this is the baby’s first rebellious period. So, what should we do during the rebellious period of four years old?

What to do when a four-year-old is in rebellious period

1. During the rebellious period of four years old, parents must remember not to be rude or criticize or scold the baby. They must reason with the baby. In this way, when the child has unreasonable demands or other unreasonable behaviors, parents must reason with the child, explain the reason clearly, and finally tell the child about the unreasonableness, so that the child realizes that his behavior is wrong.

2. Parents must respect their children's opinions. In this case, parents cannot just express their dissatisfaction with their children for their stubborn behavior. They must allow children time to express and explain, and then let the children explain the reasons for the matter themselves. This can prevent parents from wrongly accusing their children.

What to do when your child is in the rebellious period

1. Parents and friends can become friends with children. In this case, when the child succeeds in doing something, parents and friends should not only encourage him, but also express admiration for him. In this case, you can appropriately ask him to tell you the secret of success. However, when the child makes a mistake, let him see it with his own eyes and accept the punishment after doing it.

2. Parents can have secrets but they can also allow children to have their own little secrets, and then respect their children. Don't always look into children's secret rooms, and don't always ask about their children's private lives. Parents must trust their children.

Children in their rebellious period must be taken seriously. The above ways and methods are very helpful for children in their rebellious period. Parents only need to remember the above points. For example, children can have their own secrets, and then parents must believe in their children and not always ask them about their little secrets. Education during the rebellious period should start from an early age.