What should I do if my child doesn't want to go to school? How can I persuade him?

Many parents have encountered the problem of children not wanting to go to school. However, going to school is a necessary stage in a child's growth. Only in school can they learn more knowledge and gain a foothold in society. So if a child does not want to go to school, how should they convince him or her?

1. Psychological adjustment

When faced with problems such as children not wanting to go to school, parents should not take tough measures at this time. First, they should find the root cause of the children's unwillingness to go to school, and then provide guidance and psychological adjustments. In this way, the problem can be solved. The reason why many children are reluctant to go to school is mostly because the sudden changes in the environment make them feel uncomfortable. Therefore, what parents need to do most at this time is to improve their children's adaptability. There are many ways, such as telling them the benefits of kindergarten and introducing them to more children in school. Once the children realize the benefits of going to school, they will go to school on their own initiative.

If necessary, parents may wish to give their children some material rewards, such as finding their favorite food or the place they most want to go. At the same time, they can also tell their children that if they can go to kindergarten consciously, they will give them corresponding rewards. However, the premise is that parents must keep their promises, otherwise it will only have a counterproductive effect.

2. Test scores

Many parents in our country care too much about test scores. Once their children's grades drop or do not rise, the parents will show excessive anxiety, and such emotions will also affect their children. Once a child has such emotions, it will seriously affect the child's enthusiasm for learning, and he will not want to go to school. Also, during periods of tense family atmosphere, children may become nervous and sensitive due to frequent quarrels between their parents, and may even have symptoms such as inferiority complex and autism. If their grades drop a little, they will develop a rejection of learning.

3. Loneliness

Some children have almost no friends in school due to poor psychological conditions such as autism and inferiority complex, and often feel lonely. Therefore, for these children, the most important thing parents need to do is to regulate their children's inferiority complex in a timely and effective manner, and then teach them social skills, so as to solve the problem of their children having no friends at school. At the same time, we should create opportunities for children to interact with others at home, such as letting them help teachers distribute notebooks, or letting them practice ordering food when the whole family goes to a restaurant for dinner. In this way, children can gradually step out of their ivory tower and better integrate into the larger environment of the school.