What should I do if my child is very active and restless?

Children are very quiet in daily life, but become extremely lively in crowded situations. In fact, this phenomenon is an undesirable phenomenon, also known as stage frenzy, which has a great impact on the baby's personality. So what should we do?

Parents must not neglect the emotional communication with their children, and do not think that everything will be fine as long as they provide their children with enough food and clothing. Don't use being busy at work as an excuse. No matter how busy you are, you can still make time to be alone with your children, play with them, play games with them, or tell them stories and talk to them before they go to bed. When it comes to emotional communication with children, no one can replace the role of parents. Children need to gain confidence and a sense of security from emotional communication with their parents.

First of all, parents should spend more time with their children and give them care. Children’s childhood is fleeting, so parents should cherish it and enjoy this rare time with their children. Try to give your child a relaxed and free space to grow, and don't set too many rules and regulations for your child. As long as the child's health and safety are not harmed, don't over-restrict your child, so that the child will not challenge your rules and authority when he thinks it is "appropriate".

Before guests come, tell your children who the guests are and when they will come, and then let them do some work to entertain the guests, or teach them some etiquette in dealing with people and ask them how they would like to entertain the guests. You can say to your child: "You are a polite child. Mom and Dad believe that you can treat guests well."

When guests come, you can let your children bring slippers and hand towels for the guests, help them put away their clothes, serve them fruits, etc., so that the children can fully feel that they are a member of the family, the little master of the house, and a good helper of their parents. If your child is extrovert and likes to show off, you can also arrange for him or her to perform for the guests to avoid the child feeling left out.

Finally, it is important to note that parents should avoid reinforcing their children's "stage-crazy" behavior, and should form a united front with the whole family. When their children are "stage-crazy", they should not pay any attention to them and pretend not to see anything. At the same time, guide and hint to guests not to pay attention to the child's "stage frenzy". If the child finds it boring, he or she will naturally no longer use this method to attract attention.