What to do if your child is introverted and unsociable? Parental education is the most important

Many parents are very anxious when their children are introverted and don’t know how to educate their children. In fact, children’s introversion has a lot to do with the parents’ usual education. If parents want their children to become more extroverted, the most important thing is for them to change their existing education methods.

1. Insist on sending your child to kindergarten . This will allow your child to enter a children's world and learn to interact with peers in collective life. He will learn new knowledge that he did not understand before and enjoy the fun of being with his peers.

2. Choose one or two friends who are cheerful, healthy and slightly younger than your child to play with. This can not only cultivate your child's self-confidence but also help each other.

3. Let your children play freely at ordinary times . Some parents are concerned about their children's cleanliness, hygiene, safety, etc., and therefore always restrict their children from doing this or that, which will restrict the development of their children's personality. Children should be encouraged to play with sand and mud, step on puddles after rain, climb piles of stones and sand, etc. In fact, they can play to their heart's content just by wearing appropriate clothes and paying attention to safety. Such unrestrained and free play will make children's personality more cheerful.

4. Feel happy with your children . For example, telling children jokes and humorous stories, joking with each other, participating in children's games, taking children out to play, etc.

5. Be patient with your child and don’t make too high demands on him . Parents should also try to control their emotions and not react too strongly to children's timid behavior, such as not daring to slide down the slide, jump on the trampoline, or speak loudly.

6. Give your child positive psychological hints , and do not use language such as "Did your classmates bully you?" or "Did the teacher criticize you today?" to avoid putting your child in a weak or passive position psychologically.

7. Create conditions and encourage children to participate in more activities, such as playing chess, playing the piano, literacy, calculation, traveling, etc.

Children are very malleable. As long as we adults can actively guide them, they will grow up healthily.