What to do if your child is withdrawn? Communicate with your child more!

A child’s introverted personality is a problem that many parents are very worried about, and a child’s introverted personality is also closely related to the family. When it comes to what to do if a child has an introverted personality, parents must pay attention to their children's emotional changes, pay more attention to their children, and communicate with them frequently.

1. Expand your child’s living space

Currently, due to home conditions, family structure and other reasons, parents often keep their children at home. Over time, the children will become withdrawn. Parents should let their children step out of their own small circle and let them play, have games and live more with their neighbors' children. It is necessary for parents to take their children to amusement parks, zoos, parks and other places during holidays and spare time, and take their children to visit friends and relatives, so as to reduce their children's unfamiliarity with different people and situations, enhance their needs and interests for communication, and develop a lively, cheerful and generous personality.

2. Enhance physical fitness

A child's withdrawn personality is closely related to his weak constitution. If a child has a weak constitution, he or she will lack the patience and persistence to engage in activities. This makes it easy for them to be ridiculed and despised by their peers. Children in this state will avoid society, interpersonal interactions, and use loneliness to protect themselves. Therefore, parents should take their children to immerse themselves in nature more often, such as traveling, climbing mountains, swimming, exercising, etc. On the one hand, it can cultivate children's courage, optimism and perseverance. On the other hand, it can enhance children's physical fitness and enable them to participate in various group activities, games among peers, and sports activities.

3. Set a good example for your children

As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together." Parents' self-isolation and lack of good interpersonal relationships will have a subtle influence on their children, causing the children to feel lonely and develop an introverted personality. Therefore, as the child’s first enlightenment teacher, parents should set a good example for their children in terms of words, deeds, interpersonal relationships, etc. Children will unconsciously develop a good character through what they see and hear.

4. Pay attention to evaluation and attitude

If parents often criticize and deny their children at will, or even blame and scold them, the children will lose their self-esteem and self-confidence, and will feel that they are stupid and have bad behavior. This self-experience will be repeated and fixed, which will cause the child to develop an inferiority complex and withdrawn personality. They will always think that they can do nothing, are no good, and are inferior to anyone. As a result, they will shrink aside, dare not speak, and feel depressed. Parents may wish to adopt some positive comments.