How to solve the problem of children not liking to study

If children don't like to study, parents will worry that this will affect their academic performance. However, if parents blindly force or control and interfere with their studies, it will only make them more resistant. Parents should learn to create conditions for them and cultivate their interest in learning.

First, parents should control themselves and not intervene too much, because learning is the child’s own business after all.

Studying homework is the child's own business. If he does not study well, it is also the child's own business. But now parents are worried about their children

Because of their children's future prospects or fear of losing face, they always care too much about their children's studies. "It's time for you to do your homework." This is what you might say as soon as you see your child coming towards you. In addition, when the children are doing their homework, both parents watch them with wide eyes, pointing and criticizing, and they care more about them than the children themselves. This kind of behavior from parents naturally makes children feel that learning is the parents' business and has little to do with themselves. No wonder they don't like to study and are careless.

Second, create conditions for children to learn without interference.

Just like if a child is short or has poorly developed bones, all parents can do is provide their child with high-protein and high-calcium food, but they cannot eat it for the child, nor can they make the child grow taller. When it comes to learning, all parents can do is create a quiet and warm learning environment. Parents should not spend too much time watching TV, let alone playing cards or mahjong every day, because an overly noisy environment is not suitable for children to study.

Third, the role of role models is infinite. If you want your children to read, you should pick up a book yourself.

It is best not to read martial arts or romance stories, but books related to your work, or books about children, such as popular science books on child psychology, or some classic books that can improve your self-cultivation. You can immerse yourself in them and absorb nutrition from them. In the process of your own improvement, you may find new ways to educate your children. In addition, he may even imitate your example.