What should I do if my child likes to get angry?

Educating children is a big issue, and there are many issues involved. As a parent, you must have some understanding and learning in this area. If a child is always angry, it means there are obstacles in education and communication. The first thing to review should be the parents. Don't put the blame on the child. Parents are the best first teachers for their children. Let's take a look at the guidance methods.

1. Empathy education. The so-called empathy education is to put yourself in other people's shoes. In daily life, parents should set a good example for their children. For example, let your baby experience the feeling of a child getting the smallest apple. Empathy education can make babies more friendly and humble when interacting with their peers.

2. Positive reinforcement method. Positive reinforcement holds that if a behavior is immediately followed by a reward, the behavior will be strengthened. When children show concern for others and make concessions, parents should give timely praise and acknowledge their children's behavior. Give him more praise and let him experience the joy of it.

Use cold treatment to teach your baby self-control

When a baby exhibits unreasonable behavior for the first time, parents should not compromise, let alone buy toys or food to buy peace as soon as a problem arises. It is a long learning process for a baby to go from ignorance to knowledge and to complete understanding. During this process, mom and dad should maintain a sensible attitude to educate the baby, so that the baby can gradually understand what can be done and what cannot be done, which things must be decided by the parents, which things can be decided by themselves, and which things can be decided together with the parents.

When your baby is being unreasonable, you can use the cold treatment method. Appropriately forcing him to take a break, diverting the child's attention in a different way, giving a gentle hint, or temporarily ignoring him may be effective. Over time, your baby will learn that losing his temper is ineffective and will stop using this method to achieve his goals. Later, under the patient teaching of my parents, I slowly learned to control my emotions.

There are many only children in China at present. There are many areas that need to be improved in both preschool education and school education. As parents, first of all, don’t spoil your children and learn some frustration education. This will be very beneficial for their future growth. If you spoil them in every way, there will often be a huge gap when they enter society, which will cause a deviation in their character.