Three major environments that children need for healthy growth

As the pace of life becomes faster and faster, in line with the principle of not losing at the starting line, more and more young parents begin to accompany their children to various early education classes and participate in various skill training before their children are 3 years old. They believe that this is the only way to fully develop their children's intelligence during the peak period of their brain development. However, psychologists believe that sufficient exposure to nature, close and harmonious family relationships, and a gradual pace of parenting are the three most important prerequisites for a child's early growth.

1. Natural environment: increasing wisdom and spirituality

Chinese families lack courtyards, but it is advisable to prepare a simulated small natural environment for children, with sunshine, starry sky, clean water, plants, natural wind and morning dew, and furniture should be made of natural materials such as wood, cotton, linen, sand and stone. When a child is conceived, the mother's womb is the product of natural evolution, but the mother's mentality, emotions, thoughts, behavior, and diet may have been completely socialized or humanized. As compensation for natural information, a pregnant mother can get closer to nature. It is very necessary to go to the suburbs in her spare time to breathe the fragrance of soil and grass, bathe in the sun and breeze, and feel the comfort of being embraced by nature.

Pregnant mothers should maintain a slightly happy state of mind, not joy or happiness, but a feeling of tranquility, relaxation and satisfaction after kissing a rose and taking a deep breath. Because the mother's heartbeat is the rhythm of the child's life, excessive emotions such as excitement and sadness will make the fetus uneasy. Life and nature are one. In the early stages of life's birth and formation, infants' perceptions are open and connected to nature. Therefore, if pregnant mothers and children under 3 years old have more contact with nature, it will increase their children's wisdom and spirituality.

2. Mother-child relationship: determines the basic inner structure of the child

Family interpersonal relationships are the second largest environment for children's growth. The first is the mother-child relationship. The behavior of close interaction between mother and child determines the basic inner structure of the child when he or she grows up. Many psychological and emotional problems may be rooted in the frustration, trauma and lack of the child's early relationship with the mother. Unconditional acceptance, warmth, care and attention are important. A good intimate relationship between mother and child is the psychological foundation for the child to establish a good relationship with the outside world. A good parent-child relationship requires sufficient time spent together and the emotional investment in that time; both are indispensable. Mothers of children under 2 years old need to spend more time with them. In addition to love and meticulous care, it is also important to be grateful for the arrival of the child.

Research by scientists has shown that geniuses are those who retain some of the perceptual abilities of children, so parents can delay verbal and rational education as much as possible to allow their children to perceive the world more fully and for a longer period of time. Don't be too eager for quick success or force things to happen. In fact, only a strong mind can create a person who goes far in learning.