Are newborn babies smart?

Just because a newborn has a bad temper doesn't necessarily mean the child is smart. There are many reasons why children have bad tempers, which may be related to genetics, but for newborns, if the temper is bad, it may mean that the child is uncomfortable, such as the weather is too hot, the child is not comfortable wearing clothes, etc. At this time, the child will cry. Parents should pay attention to this aspect. Let's take a look.

Are newborn babies smart?

In fact, when children are willful and crying, parents have a variety of ways to solve the problem, such as beating them, reasoning with them, persuading them, etc. The methods used are different and the final results are also very different, but violence such as punching and kicking is the most undesirable. When encountering such a situation, the first thing to do is to find out the cause, then use more reasoning, and slowly guide and persuade.

Common reasons why children cry and have bad tempers:

1. Influenced by the external environment

Some parents have a bad temper and lose their temper easily at home. If this continues, their children will often be influenced by this and their temper will gradually become worse. Therefore, when educating children, parents must start with themselves, create a harmonious and healthy family environment, and learn to adjust their mentality, so that children will become peaceful and calm, instead of making a fuss and losing their temper.

2. Too lonely and want parents to accompany them

Children generally like to stick to their mothers. If the mother is not around or is doing other things, the child will feel lonely and have no one to play with. At this time, they often make many seemingly unreasonable demands, but parents often cannot satisfy their babies, so the children have to cry and make a fuss to attract their parents' attention.

3. The purpose was not achieved, so I just vented.

There are also many children who will cry and make a fuss in order to "threaten" their parents once their desires or things are obstructed.

Good ways to deal with your child's crying and tantrums:

1. Listen patiently

If the child makes a request, parents should not ignore it, but put down the work at hand and listen carefully to the child's request. If the child’s request is reasonable, spend more time with the child; if the child’s request is unreasonable, refuse tactfully and persuade the child through guidance.

2. Provide more physical comfort

Children's crying and making a fuss is often a manifestation of loneliness. At this time, parents can hold the child and gently caress the child's back or head. In this way, the child will calm down quickly, and it will be easier to communicate with the child.

Parents must not use violence when their children cry and make a fuss. Instead, they should comfort and accompany their children through reasonable methods. This way, the children will not feel lonely and will feel more secure.