What to do with children after divorce?

Marriage problems are a difficult problem faced by many people in modern life, because marriage problems involve many people and things, especially problems in marriages with children have a great impact, because children are the foundation of marriage. Once both parties decide to divorce, it will be a great harm to the children. There are also issues such as the custody of children after divorce, which are relatively difficult to solve. Let's take a look at what to do if you miss your children after divorce?

1. Set a specific time for visiting your children when you divorce

When getting divorced, whether you file for divorce or two people agree to divorce, you must have an agreement. It is recommended that you find a good lawyer to consult about how to write the agreement, especially the one about visiting children. How to write it to better guarantee your right to visit your children. In this way, after the divorce, even if the former couple has become enemies, you still have the right to visit your children. If the other party does not allow you to visit your children, you can appeal and seek legal help.

2. Give your child a beautiful "promise"

If the child cannot follow you, then don't just walk away. At the very least, give the child a good promise, even if it is a white lie. At the very least, you can give your child something to think about when they are without a father or a mother. For example, you can tell your child that you are going on a business trip for a long time and ask your child to be obedient and wait for you to come home. This way the child won't feel so lost and desperate.

3. Don’t let your relationship with the person raising your child deteriorate

Even though the law does not allow one party to maliciously refuse the other party from visiting the children after divorce, such things still happen a lot in reality, especially for the party who gets custody of the child. So you have to be mentally prepared. When you decide to divorce and not take your children with you, you should try your best not to deteriorate your relationship with the other party's relatives. This is not only good for your children, but also creates opportunities for you to visit your children in the future.

Work hard to earn money and visit your children more often

Even if your child is not with you, as long as there is someone to take care of the child and the person who takes care of the child is attentive to the child, you can make more money, which can provide some financial support to the child and allow you to visit the child frequently. This can be regarded as a kind of compensation for the child.