Reasons why children have bad tempers

Some children have very bad tempers. There are many reasons for this, such as being over-pampered at home or having congenital reasons. All of these may cause the child to have a bad temper, which is actually very detrimental to the child's growth. If we do not pay attention to timely guidance, such children will often fall when they enter the society. Let us now learn how to guide irritable children.

1. The child has been in poor health since childhood and often falls ill. He has received all kinds of care from his family, which has made him develop the mentality that others should obey him. Once you stop complying, you will lose control of yourself psychologically.

2. Parents are not around their children most of the time, and they want to give their children everything they can during the short time they are together. They will even blindly meet some of their children’s excessive requests. Therefore, when children's desires are not met, they often lose their temper.

3. Children are usually over-pampered and rarely experience setbacks. They have poor psychological endurance and cannot tolerate criticism or opposing opinions.

4. Some children have had this experience before: their parents gave in after they lost their temper and cried loudly. From then on, they discovered the wonderful use of losing their temper and used it as a means to threaten their parents.

How to guide a cranky child

First of all, parents should find out why their children are prone to temper tantrums. Is it because their children have low self-emotional regulation ability, lack of self-control ability, poor expression ability, and lose their temper over trivial matters? Or is it because their children lack the ability to judge whether their own requests are reasonable?

Parents should check whether adults' attitudes towards children are consistent. The correct approach is that parents should let children understand and remember one thing: making a fuss and losing temper is useless. This will help children understand that using crying and tantrums as weapons does not work. After several such educations, the child's temper tantrum will change.

Parents should communicate more with their children, understand their needs, and pay attention to their children's interactions with other children. Parents can learn more about what other children are playing, thinking, and asking for. When children make their own requests, parents can better understand their children's feelings. With guidance and patient explanations, parents can eliminate or reduce children's anger.

Never think that "children are born with a bad temper". Some parents even lose their temper when their children lose their temper and respond to their temper with temper. This emotional approach will definitely not change a child's habit of losing temper.

Pay attention to cultivating children's broad interests and flexibility in doing things. There is a "critical period" for children's ability development. It is best to learn painting at the age of 3-4; and to learn music between the ages of 5-7. Therefore, the cultivation of interest should not be too early or too late. Children's interests are particularly easy to divert, so don't make decisions based solely on the opinions of parents. Instead, listen to the opinions of professionals and the children themselves.

This article introduces in detail the reasons why children have a bad temper, and also introduces how to guide children with a bad temper. As a parent of a child with a bad temper, it is best to carefully refer to the contents of this article. You must know that children's bad temper is not innate, and it can be improved as long as positive measures are taken.