How to educate children with bad temper

Every child is the apple of his or her parents' eyes, but everyone has a different personality, and the formation of a child's personality has a lot to do with us parents. If we parents indulge our children too much, it will easily lead to the child having a bad temper. When facing a child with a bad temper, you should correct him/her, because a bad temper can hurt others, so we should guide the child's character correctly. Let us now learn how to guide our children’s character.

The educational methods are as follows:

1. Don’t just conform

When many parents see their children crying, they start to coax them without thinking, agree to all their requests, and try to keep the situation quiet, hoping that the children will stop crying and calm down quickly. In fact, this method is not advisable. Once the child has mastered this characteristic of his parents, he will become even worse next time and will cry and make a fuss if his demands are not met. Children who get used to this method will become unreasonable in the future. Parents should be vigilant and not just agree to their children's requests. They should explain the reasons to their children and let them know what can and cannot be satisfied so that they know the limits.

2. Ask the reason clearly before calling

Many parents are very tired when they get home from get off work, but they encounter their children throwing tantrums and throwing things. I'm so angry. Pick up the belt and beat him. This method is not advisable. Parents should ask the child why he is crying. Maybe he wants the attention of his parents, or maybe some reasonable request has been ignored. Once parents find out the reason, they will not be so angry. It’s reasonable to promise them a time to satisfy them. If it’s unreasonable, explain the reason to the child. It’s not too late to beat him if he doesn’t listen.

3. Cold treatment

The child keeps crying and won't listen to anything you say. No matter how you coax him or her, he or she won't stop crying. If you encounter such an unreasonable child, you might as well leave him or her alone and do your own thing. When the child finds that the parents are not paying attention to his or her "playing tricks", he or she will feel unconscious and will naturally stop crying. Then talk to your children about why they lost their temper, and tell them that they can talk to their parents nicely if they have any problems or requests, and that they should not expect their parents to meet their demands in this way.

4. Cannot meet their requirements immediately

It is not a good thing for a child to force his parents to meet his demands by throwing tantrums. Parents should adopt a roundabout tactic, talk to their children about their demands, tell them what can satisfy them, but also if there is time and conditions, and sometimes also explain why their demands can be satisfied.

5. Distract

We may agree to our children’s requests because we are busy with work or have forgotten something else. When the children come back, they may feel that their parents have lied to them and are not trustworthy. Crying and making a fuss. Parents can coax their children, give them other toys, and play with them. Or let your child watch a cartoon and talk about the fun things in it. Or you can make a joke to your child, which will divert his attention and make him laugh quickly.

6. Parents should have a unified opinion

When criticizing and educating children, parents' opinions must be unified and they cannot oppose each other. Once children see that their parents have different opinions, they don't know who to listen to and feel that they have a backer, and will become even more disobedient.