What to do if your child is too stubborn

We all know that over-pampering children will lead to rebellious personalities and stubborn tempers. Especially for friends who have a better family environment, your children lack education, which is the main reason for their stubborn tempers. You should communicate more with your children, cultivate their good character, and not indulge them too much. As for how to correct a child's stubborn temper, we suggest that you learn the following points, which we believe will be of some help.

If a child is too stubborn, he should be corrected from an early age. If your child likes listening to stories, tell him meaningful stories, such as Nezha. Or if you disagree with him sometimes, you can also analyze whether your approach and his approach are wrong. You cannot rely on the fact that you are an adult and everything is right and for his good. If he is indeed wrong, you should use a better way to communicate with him. Sometimes it may just be a misunderstanding, but if you don't try to communicate, bad things can happen.

1. Guide slowly and don’t discipline by force. Children are very smart. When a child loses his temper, parents should first comfort him, build empathy with him, and then divert his attention.

2. When dealing with children now, communicate with them as equal friends. Don’t treat them as children, as they may act like spoiled children sometimes. Once you understand his temper, it will be easier to get along with him.

3. Don’t over-restrict your children or over-indulge them. Sometimes it is a good thing if a child is stubborn. Perseverance must be strong, and we should give full play to children's strengths.

4. Where does a child’s stubborn temper come from? The person who tied the bell must untie it! Try not to fight or argue with your child as much as possible, and try to be of the same voice and resonance with your child. Children have a lot of anger in their hearts, and we can use their rebellious psychology to guide them to develop in a favorable direction.

5. Generally speaking, parents are more stubborn, and the baby will become stubborn too. Mothers should not require their babies to do everything in a certain way, and babies will gradually become less stubborn.

6. Usually, you should reason with your child when he is calm. When he is stubborn, it is best to ignore him, which is the so-called "cold treatment".

7. Stubborn children tend to respond to soft treatment and not hard treatment. The key is that parents should give their children more encouragement and praise, less scolding and no corporal punishment. Correct guidance in method is important.

8. When facing a stubborn child, parents should state the facts, reason with him, and try their best to convince him. Understand your child’s thoughts better and use persuasive education to teach him/her to understand things. Instill correct ideas in your children.

If the child cries because he is wronged, parents can guide the child to express his thoughts and give him love and sympathy; if the child cries because his unreasonable demands are not met, parents do not need to pay too much attention to his behavior, and can adopt a cold treatment method to ease the situation. You can ignore him first and wait until he calms down before reasoning with him.