What to do if your child has no memory

Many children do not listen to their parents and will be punished by their parents after making mistakes. However, children generally do not bear grudges and will quickly forget the lesson after being punished by their parents. After a period of time, they will still do the same thing and make the same mistakes. This phenomenon is called forgetfulness by many parents. Children who always forget will make parents very angry. So what should we do if children always forget?

All children are born the same, and superb memory can be developed later, but you must never always criticize your child and make him lose confidence.

As children grow up, they slowly learn knowledge such as mathematics, social interaction, science, etc. In order to put these things into their little warehouse of wisdom, they need memory. When children are five or six years old, they really need help with memory. Experts say that children's memory can be trained.

Here are some ways to train your child's memory:

(1) When taking your child shopping, have him or her count the number of items in the store window. Parents and children compare to see who can count correctly and quickly. You can also increase the difficulty a little bit. After the children remember the items in the window and walk away, they can recall them again after a while to see how much they remember.

(2) Let the children count the number of bicycles passing by the roadside for 3 to 4 minutes, preferably during rush hour.

(3) Let the children watch the whole process of their parents doing certain housework, such as killing fish, cooking, or cleaning the car. After finishing, ask the children to repeat the steps or procedures of doing things.

(4) Let the children count at least 30 stars in the sky. Counting stars is a difficult task, which requires children to concentrate highly so as not to be distracted by other stars. What can easily happen during the counting process is that you forget the stars you just counted and end up counting the same stars twice. At this time, parents should tell their children that if they counted twice, they should count again.

(5) Ask the children to name certain objects of two or more colors that they have seen before. Taking red and yellow as an example, parents can ask their children to recall by category, such as naming red or yellow flowers, naming yellow or red clothes, etc.

(6) Make a plan. Parents and children discuss what to do tomorrow, for example, what to do in the morning, what to do at noon, and what to do in the evening. The next day, parents should not remind their children, but check on them before going to bed to see how they have carried out their plan.