How should I educate a rebellious two and a half year old baby?

In the process of growing up, a child will encounter all kinds of things, especially when they are 2-3 years old. Children of this age are the most troublesome for parents, because they have just learned to talk and walk, so they may be curious about the world, so they like to walk and jump around. Also, because they have self-awareness, they like to go against adults. So how should a rebellious two-and-a-half-year-old baby be educated?

1. Now many parents begin to implement democracy with their children, but not all democracies can achieve good results, and many parents are only democratic on the surface, but still use a tough commanding tone afterwards. For example, at the beginning they ask the child whether he wants to go to dinner, and when the child says "no", the parents start to order him angrily. Zhihu has the opposite effect.

2. Give your child more multiple-choice questions. Before asking your child, think of two options that you can accept and give your child a choice, such as whether to eat noodles or rice. If the child gives a third answer, you must clearly tell him that it is not within the range of choices. The purpose of doing this is to guide the child and, on the other hand, make the child feel that you respect his choice.

3. Don’t order your children to do things all the time. Instead, use a negotiating tone. Parents’ “fighting violence with violence” will ultimately backfire.

4. Give your child some time to prepare. For example, before going out, remind your child that you have 5 minutes before going out, so you can make preparations and see what to bring. Or we have 5 minutes left and we are about to eat, so we need to put away the toys we have, etc. Give your child time to respond.

5. Let more people participate in the child's growth. Don't always let the mother take care of the child alone. The father should also participate in the child's growth and play and communicate with the child more. The father only needs to give more correct demonstrations and does not need to preach too much.