Education and guidance of a three-year-old baby_How to educate and guide a three-year-old child?

When a baby is born, parents need to take special care of the child, especially before the child is three years old. As we all know, many of the child’s behaviors are determined before the age of three. If you want your child to become smart and love to study in the future, although innate factors are indispensable, acquired training is also very important for the child. So how do you educate and guide a three-year-old child?

Observing your child is the first step

You have a delicate heart to observe children. This is the first correct step. Parents have different ideas about their children, so we need to test the children step by step.

Emotional education, it is very important to understand the character of the child. Managing a person’s emotions is not about learning a lot of theories, but about understanding the child and loving the child in the process of treating the child.

Love is a learning process. We need to understand the pieces of life and not the need to hurt their children. Children grow up very quickly, and you need to pay attention to their changes. Parents should be wise enough to know that this child is normal, and not just reprimand and punish him. But you should know that you don't know him, and the result is reprimand and punishment. You should know that it is because you don't understand him, and the result hurts him. Children learn by feeling, so parents need to create an environment and learn how to love and allow children to express their needs.

If it is just "teaching" and "giving", there is not enough interaction with children, and we need to know how to give appropriately. There are many successful people in the world because they are full of confidence. Most teenagers are not confident because their parents tell them what they can and cannot do. Therefore, giving children sufficient needs and satisfaction will give them more opportunities to succeed.

Education before the age of three is important, but parents should not put too much pressure on themselves. They may try to take it easy and share in the joy of their child's growth. Love your children, starting from life.

The impact of parent-child interactions on future development.

In fact, it is not difficult for parents to find out that babies cry not because they want to be hugged, but they want to know that their parents are around. So there is no problem if you want to hug them, but you need to understand what they want. Some parents simply use pacifiers to solve the problem, but is this way of education correct? Education is important because the behavior of parents affects the child, and how parents influence each other will affect his future mood. For children, it is true or false.

To cultivate personality before the age of zero, parents must know how to use the right heart and effort, so that your future education will be more effective. For example, I want my child to drink milk before work, but the child sleeps very deeply and will be very sad when he wakes up, so I think about how to make him happy. Through my observation, I found that if the parents' mood at that time is urgent and depressed, the child will feel uneasy, so I decided to look in his eyes and let him see my smiling face. I will hold him to play with dolls, grab his hand and let him pat it, talk to him, let him understand the ceremony, greet other people, you know. So it is important to create a good atmosphere. In addition, it is important to choose a nanny who knows whether she smiles or not, so that it does not cause negative emotions to the child.

Spreading happiness

An adult's smile is the best example for a child. Your attitude towards discipline is also resigned or irrelevant. For example, if a child hates washing his face, parents will understand and bring him a good mood first. You can wash your face and hum a song to make the child feel that washing his face is a happy thing. Then ask him not to wash it, so that he will look forward to it and like it. This process seems to be playing, but you also have to do normal things, so don't do business discipline like a child. Parents may wish to learn some cartoons and fantasies to let the children be infected with your happy mood. Searching for the child in the name of the baby.

When parents find it fun to do this, your children will definitely be happy. If you are unhappy, the child will be unhappy, and this is not the right thing to do in the opposite way. Children can build the foundation for good emotions and character through enjoyable experiences and be happy about success. Education before the age of three depends on parents looking at the needs of their children, rather than listening to what others say. As long as this method can bring happiness, it is feasible; if you feel troubled, don't use that method because the child's emotions will also be affected. Maternal love changes the baby's personality and psychology.

Parents should be attentive and considerate.

Focus and attention are the best methods of reproduction. My baby was out of diapers when he was less than a year old, but I was concerned about forcing him to pee, so I asked her how to train him. Every time a nanny takes him to the toilet, puts the water aside, and sits on the toilet at a fixed time every day, so that he can develop the sense of being able to do so. Over time, he will know when to solve it, or a faucet where he wants to urinate, and every time he finishes, the nanny teaches him to pull the water, and turns on the light and opens the door, so that the child feels like he is playing. Remember, don't scold him during his learning process, but let him learn to go to the toilet happily. Therefore, this method is very important. The baby's difficult problems were solved well.

How to raise children correctly?

For example, when the children want to climb, I will worry about his fragility, so I go to an area and restrict his activities, but when he grows up, he will open things, and even if I strengthen the containment in the future, I don’t think he should do more dangerous actions. I found that this method was not good enough to put the cover on the socket or put something that made him not easily curious; he was curious about cooking, and I was worried that he would get hurt in his stroller, and I didn't think his attitude would become irritable, so I took him to visit Dad's cooking, or gave him a toy shovel to engage.

Therefore, the child is not controlled by restrictions, prohibitions, or commands, but is allowed to know his curious curiosity and just satisfy his curiosity. But he's curious about dangerous things? I never encourage scaring a child, for example, letting him touch hot water, because when he was little, my parents wanted to avoid danger and let him touch so good teaching is to create a good space instead of scaring him.

Knowing what the child needs, instead of being afraid that he will disturb us, accompanying the child to grow up, parents grow well, we must have a delicate heart to watch him and find the best way.