How to educate children in rebellious period

The most headaches for parents are when their children are in their rebellious period, because we all know that every child will have a rebellious period in the process of growing up. If parents do not deal with it correctly, it will affect their future growth and health. At this time, parents should understand the correct educational methods, communicate more with their children, and not always use sticks when they do something wrong.

1. Open yourself up. When parents find that their children's interests will affect their homework, they should not prohibit it immediately. It is better to understand the situation better. For example, accompany your children to a video game center and discuss their idols with them to remind them what they should and should not learn. Only by entering the child’s inner world can we get along with them more harmoniously. When parents get along well with their children, the children will not rebel.

2. Put yourself in other people’s shoes. If parents can put themselves in their children's shoes, the relationship between them will be harmonious and the children will not have a rebellious mentality.

3. Seek advice. When disciplining children, you should sometimes seek other people's opinions to broaden your mind. It is best to communicate more with your child’s teacher to understand your child’s performance in school.

4. Observe and communicate. Just observe how your child communicates with you. In many cases, parents must transcend their own roles and observe their children's rebellious problems from a third-party perspective. Treat children from different perspectives and make limited concessions.

5. Analysis and explanation. Parents should carefully analyze the specific reasons why their children develop a rebellious mentality and give full explanations. In this way, the children's rebellious psychology will gradually disappear.

6. Keep experimenting. Parents should change their methods of disciplining their children from time to time. When children are young, it is usually just the parents who talk and the children who listen. After entering middle school, you should try two-way communication and listen to your children's suggestions. Once you find that a certain method does not work, you should change the method at any time and continue to experiment until you find an effective method.

7. Practical experience. It is through practice and experience that children's rebellious psychology can be resolved. For example, a father and his son are taking a walk. The son sees a watermelon and insists on buying one. But the father says that it is too far from home and it will be too tiring to carry it back, so he refuses to buy it. The son was unhappy: "You didn't buy the watermelon I like to eat. You like me to study hard, but I don't study hard." The father thought about it and said to his only son: "You can buy the watermelon, but you are responsible for carrying it home." The only son agreed and carried the watermelon home sweating profusely. The son was deeply touched: "It's not easy to eat a watermelon."

8. Stay calm. Impatient parents should remind themselves to stay calm and wait until their children calm down before communicating.