What should parents pay attention to when beating their children?

Children's disobedience is the biggest headache for parents. Most parents will educate their children with reason and emotion. However, a small number of parents will beat and scold their children when their patience is exhausted, resulting in psychological problems or even physical injuries to the children. Let's take a look at what issues parents should pay attention to when beating their children?

For growing children, sometimes parents' actions can cause unimaginable harm to their bodies. Parents must not touch the following four parts easily!

1. Back of the head: Sometimes when parents get angry, they will just hit the back of the head. However, if you always slap the back of your head, it may cause shock to the respiratory center and lead to some complications of respiratory failure.

2. Temple: We all know that this area cannot be hit easily. Because the inner wall of its orbit is relatively thin, fractures may occur in the event of concussion, and fractures are also detrimental to the development of the optic nerve.

3. Twisting the ears: If it is too serious, it will cause perforation of the eardrum and affect hearing development.

4. Spanking: When children are naughty, we just slap them a few times. Little do people know that spanking can cause spinal damage to children.

The harm that "beating and scolding" brings to children :

1. Rebellious psychology: Some parents say that the more they beat their children, the more stubborn they become, and they will go against whatever you say. Have we ever thought about why children don’t care about being beaten or scolded? That’s because this is a silent “form of resistance” for children, and the source may be our usual beatings and scolding.

2. Poor parent-child relationship: Some parents say, "Our children don't want to be close to us, and they get impatient when we talk to them." This requires us to reflect on ourselves, wondering if we were too strict with our children when they were young, did not listen to their inner thoughts, and were too authoritarian.

3. Don’t want to study: If you beat children often, they will become tired of studying. Because in their opinion, this will give them the illusion that their parents only care about their children's grades and not themselves. Over time, they will begin to hate studying and even hate their parents.

4. Timid and cowardly: Being beaten and scolded by parents for a long time will make children become timid and cowardly, and have almost no self-confidence.

5. Hatred of parents: As children grow older, they will also develop self-esteem. If we continue to beat and scold our children, they will become more and more distant from us. In serious cases, children may even develop hatred towards us.