What should parents do with children who love to lose temper?

Faced with children who are prone to temper tantrums, many parents will feel headache and at a loss. But in fact, faced with children who are prone to temper tantrums, parents should also pay attention to understanding the correct way to deal with them. First of all, they should set a good example, and help their babies release their temper, and rewards and punishments should be clear.

1. Set a good example of behavior

Create a harmonious family atmosphere for your children. An equal, democratic, affectionate and understanding family environment can bring joy to children and make them cheerful. Pay more attention to and understand the children's physical and mental development characteristics and needs, and discuss things with them more often, such as: "What do you think?" "Can you wait a moment?" Let children learn to solve problems through language and negotiation from an early age. This helps young children overcome their depressed emotions, reduce crying and naughty behaviors, and stop them from throwing tantrums.

2. Help your baby release his temper

Babies will lose their temper when they feel frustrated. The feeling of frustration is an inevitable emotional failure that occurs when a child wants to do something but cannot achieve his or her goal due to the limitations of his or her abilities (for example, the child wants to build a tower with building blocks but cannot do so), or when we set limits on the child's behavior that are inconsistent with her or his or her behavior (for example, the child wants to touch the socket, but we have to restrict it for danger reasons, however, the child will not suppress the innate desire to learn through touch). This failure is repaired through the venting method of losing your temper. At this time, if we forbid the child to lose his or her temper, the child's frustration will accumulate, or he or she will no longer have the desire to learn when encountering similar situations, or the accumulated negative emotions will turn into a bigger powder keg.

3. Reward and punish children for losing their temper

Make rules when everyone is calm: no one will be rewarded for losing their temper, and will lose an opportunity (such as watching your favorite TV, shopping, etc.). If the mistake is repeated, severe punishment will be imposed. In short, make your child feel that the consequences of losing his temper are terrible and that he should never do so again. Never give in to your child's unreasonable demands just because he is being naughty. This will only encourage his bad temper. Third, when a child gets angry about something that makes sense but cannot be implemented, his attention should be diverted so that he can calm down slowly. Parents must remain calm at this time and not use simple or rough behavior to stop their children. For example: When a child is angry about not being able to go to the zoo, you can turn on the TV or play a piece of music that the child likes. The pictures of the activities will easily attract his attention. Afterwards, explain to him why he can't go to the zoo. Of course, when a child is acting like a spoiled brat for something unreasonable, you should try to walk away or take him to his room... the purpose is to prevent him from succeeding in his spoiled bragging.

4. Don’t compromise with your baby’s temper in public

When children lose their temper in public places, such as in shopping malls, supermarkets or when guests come to the home, parents tend to be gentle and compromising in these situations, giving the children an opportunity to take advantage of the situation (such as Qiangqiang mentioned above). At this time, if the child's request is reasonable, satisfy him. If it is unreasonable, respond to him indirectly, such as telling him to go home and talk about it, or telling him to wait until the guests leave, etc. Parents should use a firm tone so that children dare not use these opportunities to make unreasonable demands. Children are lively and lovely. Losing temper and playing tricks are not necessary behaviors in childhood. As long as you control them properly, children's willfulness and bad temper will change a lot. 