Parents must know the personality development of girls from single-parent families

Girls who grow up in single-parent families always have some defects in their characters. Therefore, many parents in single-parent families must grasp the character development of their children during their growth stage and guide them in the right direction to help their children get out of the shadow of single parenthood and say goodbye to negative emotions such as inferiority.

I believe many friends are very concerned about the education of single-parent children, which is a common concern in today's society. Especially for girls from families without fatherly love, if they are not properly guided in character formation and if their psychological changes are not understood and analyzed in a timely manner, it is easy for them to slip further and further on the wrong path. Many parents are troubled by the various behaviors of these single-parent children. In order to better help parents solve these problems, the editor specially invited an authority in this field to make a detailed analysis for everyone.

It is necessary to grasp the psychological characteristics of children at each stage and provide appropriate guidance. Education should be given in time during the child's growth process. The age of 6 to 12 is the "latent period". The characteristic of the first half of this stage is the liking to interact and contact with the opposite sex; while the characteristic of the second half is the rejection of the opposite sex and only playing with the same sex. This stage does not have the sexual awareness and desire of adults. Adolescence after the age of 13 is the budding stage of sexual attraction. Your daughter is at a stage where she enjoys interacting with the opposite sex. Whether she is playing with boys or hugging a male teacher, she shows her lively and enthusiastic personality, which is different from the sexually conscious intimacy in the eyes of adults.

Objectively recognizing the importance of the relationship between parents and children is the key to dealing with these issues. Before a child is three years old, the quality of the mother's care will directly affect the child's future growth. The father starts to play his role after the age of 3 and he serves as a template for setting behavioral norms. 3 to 5 years old is also the "Oedipus complex" and "Electra complex" stage of growth. The relationship between mother and son is generally closer than that between father and son, and the relationship between father and daughter is closer than that between mother and daughter.

Provide appropriate adjustments to children’s psychological needs during special periods. Provide the most timely education to children when they most need to understand common sense of human nature. Parents of the opposite sex need to worry more at this stage. For example, the father should give his daughter enough closeness to satisfy the spiritual need of "sexual attachment", and let her know that mom and dad love each other and both love the baby equally. He should encourage her to get along with both parents and create a balanced family atmosphere. Then the child will be able to go through this stage healthily. This stage has a significant impact on future interactions with the opposite sex, marriage and family relationships.

For single-parent children who have lost their father's love, it is necessary to guide them to develop their character in a reasonable way. You know, if you instill some unrealistic ideas in your children when there is no love, it will easily lead them astray in the formation of their outlook on life, which is not conducive to their growth. So after reading the above introduction, I hope that parents who are in this situation can gain some inspiration.