Why is my baby so irritable?

In life, we often see parents get angry and cry loudly when they cannot meet their children's wishes. These are all caused by the baby's bad temper. If their demands are not met, they will insist on it. So what are the reasons for the baby's bad temper!

Problems that children have are usually related to their family. Psychology believes that there are several reasons that can easily cause children to have a bad temper: first, family disharmony. Husbands and wives often have conflicts over trivial family matters, which can lead to quarrels or fights; second, parents are very selfish and do not respect the elderly. Children will be influenced by this and develop a narrow-minded and bad character; third, parents' educational concepts are feudal and ignorant, or one of the parents has a bad temper and is arbitrary and domineering, which affects the children.

Never think that "children are born with a bad temper". Some parents even lose their temper when their children lose their temper and respond to temper with temper. This emotional approach will definitely not change a child's habit of losing temper. Some mothers think that their children are prone to temper tantrums and they cannot get over it, so they push their children to their fathers for discipline. This will make the child feel that "Mom has no way to deal with his temper" and he will get even worse and lose his temper in front of his mother.

What to do if your child has a bad temper?

Parents should communicate more with their children, understand their needs, and pay attention to their children's interactions with other children. Parents can learn more about what other children are playing, thinking, and asking for. When children make their own requests, parents can better understand their children's feelings. With guidance and patient explanations, parents can eliminate or alleviate their children's anger.

There are many reasons why children make mistakes and act naughty. The most important thing is that we need to understand clearly why children make mistakes. Children may make mistakes out of childishness, jealousy, panic, fatigue, stress, or frustration. We should spend more time playing with our children, reading books together, and building a good parent-child relationship. A deep understanding of our children's minds helps us choose appropriate discipline methods. Anticipating possible naughty behavior in children can help us prescribe the right medicine. For example, if we are afraid that our child will have a tantrum in the supermarket, before we go out, we'd better explain to him our shopping plans and what we expect from him.