Why do children always disobey?

Children's disobedience is a headache for parents. In fact, children's disobedience is the most common in childhood. This is mainly because with the development of their motor skills, coupled with the development of self-awareness and the drive of curiosity, they will show a rebellious side against their parents.

1. Development of motor skills

The baby's physical activity ability gradually matures, and he is extremely eager to expand his independent activity space, so he constantly tries to do new things independently. At this time, many mothers will block and restrict the baby's behavior, which will make the baby feel dissatisfied and naturally go against the mother, so the baby is "disobedient."

2. Developing Self-Awareness

After the baby is two years old, his self-awareness begins to develop, and his autonomy and enthusiasm in activities increase. In addition, he begins to realize the power of "I" and therefore wants to participate in everything, but this behavior often conflicts with your norms. If you impose your will on him, he will resist, then feel frustrated, and over time he will become more and more "disobedient."

3. Unsatisfied Curiosity

Babies are very curious and want to touch and try everything. If you do not understand this curious exploratory psychology, and think that the baby is making trouble or being naughty and restrict his actions, or even scold or beat him, it will easily cause the baby to be dissatisfied and "disobedient" will arise.