What should we do if children beat or scold their parents? Pay attention to communication!

For traditional families, it is common for parents to beat and scold their children, but this is not the correct way of family education and it can easily affect children. Therefore, in some families, children beat and scold their parents. Regarding the issue of what to do if children hit or scold their parents, both parties must pay attention to communication.

1. Don’t fight or scold your children

This is something that parents who are used to beating and scolding their children often do. As long as the child hits and scolds the parents, the parents will immediately start a "beating and scolding match" with the child, just like two outsiders having a conflict. He talks about his reasons and you talk about your reasons. You slap me and I slap you in the face. It's a farce. If you have a conflict with your child, never do this to your child. That will only make your child understand that parents can "fight and scold each other" in this way.

2. Family members must not "make trouble"

Normally, whenever the child loses his temper, the whole family will watch and laugh, thinking that the child has become more capable. Remember, when your child behaves like this, don't think it's fun.

3. Stop your child immediately when he or she exhibits these behaviors

Every child has behaviors that challenge their parents at certain times. For example, when a child is breastfeeding, the baby will try to bite the mother. Some mothers will feel very happy, thinking that the child knows how to bite. However, if they indulge the baby's behavior for the first time, the baby will definitely become more and more fierce each time. No matter how young babies are, they understand what behaviors their parents like and what behaviors they don't like. If you give them a little lesson, they will definitely understand. So you must remember to stop it in time and never condone it.

4. Avoid beating or scolding your children during daily communication

When parents educate their children on a daily basis, they will give their children a certain degree of small punishment based on the mistakes their children make. For example, if the homework is not done well, then parents will ask the child to rewrite it and double the work. Then, parents will have a quiet talk with the child to let the child understand that his or her behavior is wrong. Then the child will sincerely accept this so-called punishment.